The only purpose of sex is reproduction

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I dont know why this knowledge came to me, but it did. I cant explain it. It just appeared in my mind.

Basically, sex can be divided on 2 categories:
1. For reproduction
2. For reproduction and pleasure

The 2 is always greater than 1.

Sex in itself is a dangerous activity. The more it is practiced, the more dangerous it is. The 2 always results in much more sexual activities than 1.

Take oral sex, as one example. It doesnt serve purpose in reproduction. In that sense, it is useless and bad. The only purpose it serves is pleasure. However, it is very dangerous, actually. It often transmits herpes.

Herpes is a very uncomfortable disease, actually. As someone who has it, I guess I should know.

The problem is very simple.

Herpes often spreads from genitals to mouth by oral sex. Then it further spreads from mouth to mouth by kissing. It can spread by mere touch on mouth as well. And then it can spread from mouth to genitals by oral sex.

It is a common disease. It cannot be cured. It lasts for life. It is often transmitted to children by mere skin contact or kisses on cheek by relatives.

Basically, when sexual activity goes beyond mere reproduction purpose, number of diseases increase greatly.

I dont know why this knowledge was revealed to me.

I had herpes as a kid and I thought it went away until I read that it actually never goes away. I have it forever. And thats all thanks to sexual immorality of adults which causes rise in these diseases, which then spread non-sexually too in many different ways.
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3. For procreation and bonding.

Bonding isnt the same as simply pleasure it means limits on kinks and ways of sex. Bonding as secondary purpose also justifies sex between a married couple who is infertile or where 1 is already pregnant etc.

Now, let me be clear. The primary purpose is procreation. However, your OP ignored this 3rd combo, which is ultimately the correct one.
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Bonding isnt the same as simply pleasure it means limits on kinks and ways of sex. Bonding as aecondary ourpose also justifies sex between a married couple who is infertile or where 1 is already pregnant etc.
I guess thats less severe if its just basic sex. I was talking about sexual immorality more there. How it results in mass spread of diseases.
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Orgasms offer more than just pleasure. They are scientifically proven to improve physical, emotional, and psychological health.

From reducing stress to boosting immune function, improving sleep, and relieving pain, orgasms—with yourself or a partner—benefit the body and mind.1 


Remember that Ernest Borgnine lived to 95.

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Bonding isnt the same as simply pleasure it means limits on kinks and ways of sex
Maybe a more basic division would be:
1. For reproduction purposes only
2. For both reproduction and non-reproduction purposes

The 2 still always contains more sexual activities than 1, thus results in more diseases.

But if it is just basic sex in marriage, then it is safer, obviously.
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I am not arguing that all sex is bad here. Basic sex in marriage with no sexual immorality is much more safer and much more beneficial.
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No. The addiction to them causes the highs associated with them.

If you begin truly resisting with God helping it still is not easy at all especially if genetically high libido and if Satan still is trying to derail you from the righteous path.

What you will realise is that eventually you can just wet dream them if truly biologically necessary. The body can also, if you are male, absorb your sperm and use it well. It uses all the nutrients.

The best faith to truly help resist the urge is the Catholic. It will take you months to rewire your brain for it if you are currently an addict.

Now. Even when married and having sex. It is not a game suddenly. You do not get to cheat the system.
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Basic sex in marriage with no sexual immorality is much more safer and much more beneficial.
Do you support contraception or natural family planning
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People shame virgins and rush to defend the ego of sluts who are shamed now.

The reality is chastity is an underrated trait.

Shaming manwhores into chastity needs to become a thing as well.
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Do you support contraception or natural family planning
I dont think so. Not anymore. Diseases can still spread despite contraception. I think it is much better to just avoid sexually immoral acts. They are not necessary for anything, and they pose a risk. There are billion people who have herpes alone.
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People shame virgins and rush to defend the ego of sluts who are shamed now.
The reality is chastity is an underrated trait.
Shaming manwhores into chastity needs to become a thing as well
I used to feel bad about being a virgin, but now I am glad that I am. I cant bear the thought of giving someone herpes for life just to feel pleasure.
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Christians and muslims were right about sexual immorality. I hate to admit, but it is true.
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Not everyone is designed for fatherhood.

You can be celibate and lead a very fulfilling life. Do not let any non-Catholic get to your head about it.
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You can be celibate and lead a very fulfilling life
Very true. There are many other sources for fulfillment than sexual immorality. I dont think sexual immorality even gives fulfillment. Even masturbation is much better than giving and receiving diseases. Does Christianity oppose masturbation? I get different views on that.
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Catholics do. Idc about the other denoms.

Even if I ended up excommunicated and banned from Cath churches, I'd do my best to follow Catechism, attend a Prot denom close to Cath (Lutheran or Anglican) for the communion and try to work out a way to go to confession at cath Churches anyway (maybe call a Priest for a face to face confession and explain my dilemma).

I am so dedicated to the faith you cannot really imagine it.
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I am so dedicated to the faith you cannot really imagine it.
It is a good faith. My knowledge did lead me to conclusion that Christianity is right in many ways. Its strange given that I am not Christian, that I even get such knowledge. How does one pray to Satan for more knowledge, and somehow gets knowledge which proves Christianity right in many ways? I mean, I didnt expect that.
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The purpose of something (i.e. the reason that thing is done) depends on who is doing it. I don't think the purpose of something even needs to be a good reason. Like, what is the purpose of rape? Well, for the rapist, the purpose of raping someone might be to have sexual pleasure, but most of us would agree that's not a good justification.

Supposing the purpose for God creating sex is reproduction, then the purpose of two people having sex depends on the intentions of those two people. The purpose of having an affair might be lust or even revenge.
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You can still be saved. You need to genuinely want it.

Let him in, Holy Spirit that is, not Satan. Accept Christ. Pray to Father too to actively protect you from Satanic influence during your conversion (he likely will not entirely, Satan always comes for new converts severely in some way).

You are being tested. Accept it. Pass the test! Fail. Repent. Try again. That is the nonstop journey. ✝️
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"You know the commandments: ‘You shall not commit adultery, you shall not murder, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, honor your father and mother"

The commandment about adultery was always the one I disagreed with the most because adultery was defined even by mere lust for a woman. But I cant deny that sexual immorality results from adultery.
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My argument was that sex can only have 2 basic purposes, and one is a lot better than the other. The other is pure harm.
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Also as a doubter, pray to Mary the mother Of God  (yes we give her that title) also, she is fantastic at helping the doubt fade as is Holy Spirit more so but St. Mary the theotokos can help suggest to Christ to work with HS. Mary is the one who helps us at the lowest bounce back it is not her doing it, it is often Jesus and HS (Father's role is a bit different to faith rejuvenation) but Mary is the one alongside Holy Spirit to pray to rn for you. Ofc Jesus and Father too.
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My argument was that sex can only have 2 basic purposes, and one is a lot better than the other. The other is pure harm.
Best =/= only. Just because it's the best purpose doesn't mean it's the only purpose.
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You can still be saved. You need to genuinely want it.
Let him in, Holy Spirit that is, not Satan. Accept Christ. Pray to Father too to actively protect you from Satanic influence during your conversion (he likely will not entirely, Satan always comes for new converts severely in some way).
You are being tested. Accept it. Pass the test! Fail. Repent. Try again. That is the nonstop journey. ✝️
Thank you for inspiration, but I need to think about it now. This was all too much for me in a short time.
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Best =/= only. Just because it's the best purpose doesn't mean it's the only purpose
It means it should be, probably. And the other purpose is also often self contradicting.
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Addiction to religious highs too.
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And pls stop such profile pics. It is not cool or good
Alright then. I have changed it to something more comfortable.
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My argument was that sex can only have 2 basic purposes, and one is a lot better than the other. The other is pure harm.
Pick the right reason for having sex.
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