Black pill isn't blue pill.
Let's leave that there.
All pills are wrong but blue and red are least wrong for differing reasons.
Black pill says all women and men for that matter have identical standards and genetics plus luck determine one's ability to not only find love but enjoy and be fulfilled in life. This is why the community is full of self loathing people even if said people happen to get action.
Red pill frames a system where higher value women have higher standards and higher value men do too. Red pill struggles not because it doesn't make sense but because it forgets different people value the same teaits/things differently. It forgets that literally what is 6 in one's eyes is 10 in another's.
Blue pill is rooted in Pagan/folklore soulmate theory. It states that every single person has the ideal partner out there that will find him/her ideal and your entire life is meant to be rejecting every good option ecause better exists and you will know it when you find it as this person will like you unedited so much.
The Catholic take is the reality. It is a bit of purple really. It even includes the tiniest pinch of black pill.
I call it Cath pill.
The Cath pill is as follows:
- The purpose of all sex and marriage in human 'species' aka humankind is 2fold unlike most species of lesser animal/creature where it is 1fold. It is not solely to procreate but also to bond and keep the parenting couple very bonded.
- This means impotency and IVF methods already run against God's plan for sex. Maybe they work out but the impotent in God's plan will probably find they are more fulfilled being celibate and serving others in a different way than being a parent.
- There are others that don't suit marriage and parenting at all. These same people due to God's plan and the logic/rules God supplied us mean they automatically won't make good spouses and should avoid sex altogether unless they recover from the psychological, financial or physical ailments (spiritual is a given, you need to have a god relationship with God no matter what)
- Once you see relationships this way, not only do you brag far less when having them but it is far more chill. Friendzone becomes the standard zone. You are 2 people pledging loyalty to procreate and parent until death of either do you part. This unison is not based on the other completing you. It is based on teamwork, friendship and a united goal under God.
- Nearly all other faiths, so not atheists alone but all other faithful people, pressure and bully their children, relatives and friends if they don't get married fast or don't rear kids. Even Protestants ridicule not getting laid in itself. This attitude gaslights the holy ones to feel they are inferior, broken or wrong for staying chaste and humble. It helps sexual degenerates feel good.
Once you grasp all those elements of Cath pill, you will reach the following conclusion:
- Naturally, the further from the correct God-given way of viewing sex and spousal relationships one goes, the more immoral and superficial both genders become in the entire 'dating scene' (more like hookup scene). The entire construct in fact becomes so deeply depraved that partners guilt trip each other with gaslighting remarks that make the other feel bad for asking 'are we serious?' 'what are we?' 'are we official?' it also leads to issues of apparent queer-friendliness resulting in 'partner' whatever that means. So now, women feel awkard saying boyfriend or even husband, they say 'partner' choke a bit and say na that is just my friend I have some sex with wink wink. The scene is inherently corrupt because it doesn't push monogamy and fidelity as severely important values, let alone chastity prior to marriage.
