The majority of people in hell are women

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"I looked at Paradise and found poor people forming the majority of its inhabitants; and I looked at Hell and saw that the majority of its inhabitants were women. ""


"The Prophet said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful. " It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah? " (or are they ungrateful to Allah? ) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), She will say, 'I have never received any good from you. "

Man is that the modern American women today or what??

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Women's relationships today follow
a very predictable pattern:
  • They push men for commitment
  • They get what they want
  • They lose interest in sex
  • They become attracted to someone else
  • They start cheating (emotionally and/or physically)
  • They become angry and resentful
  • They begin telling their partners that they need time apart
  • They blame their partners for their behavior...and eventually, after a long time of vacillating back and forth and several failed attempts to give up their affairs, they end their relationships or marriages.          
     
If you're a man, like most men, you would probably never suspect that your wife is cheating, (at least, not physically cheating) not only because of your wife's seeming disinterest in sex; but also because you have the belief that your wife is a "good girl."  Unfortunately, men are frequently left/divorced by their wives without ever knowing about their wives' affairs and infidelities.
If you're a woman, like most women, prior to cheating on your husband you always proclaimed yourself to be "not the type" who would ever cheat.  However, also like most women, after they have cheated, you're shocked and appalled by your behavior; but at the same time you can't stop cheating
How women END marriages. Find out the four "Stages" women move through before divorcing their husbands.
Women's relationships and marriages have been following the same pattern for a long time, and they will continue to follow this pattern unless we develop an accurate understanding of females -- particularly in regard to their sexuality.  After researching female infidelity for over ten years, I can honestly say that many of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and some are completely erroneous. 
Unfortunately, society's preoccupation with male infidelity and male commitment issues has and continues to keep a light from being shined too closely on female infidelity and female commitment issues.  
The media has finally begun to acknowledge, albeit to a small degree, the widespread problem of female infidelity.  But to be clear, female infidelity is one of the most prevalent problems that couples are facing today in their relationships. 
People who write and speak on the subject of why women cheat often regurgitate outdated information or intentionally leave out basic information because it's not politically correct to talk about women's true sexual nature.  However, without these missing pieces of information, it's impossible to understand, and to subsequently fix, many of the real problems that couples are facing today in their relationships.
 
My story:
Shortly after my 27th  birthday, I began to feel very different.  I had been happily married for 4 years and then, suddenly out of nowhere, I began feeling bored and unhappy.  In an attempt to figure out what was causing my unhappiness, I looked for answers in books, tried to talk to my mother and eventually went to see a psychologist.   All of the information I received attributed the way I was feeling to my husband, and similar to the majority of women, I began to view my husband as the culprit too.
 
Currently, women are initiating 70 - 75% of all divorces
 
Later, through my own research, I discovered that what I was experiencing was quite normal.  In fact, women are the most likely to divorce in their late twenties and thirties after an average of 4 years of marriage. During this time, it's quite common for women to experience a pre-midlife crisis, which is similar to the male midlife crisis, only with an important difference - a difference that can actually make women more likely to cheat than men. 
 
           
The "stagesthat women often experience during the course of their long-term relationships                            
Several years into my research I was able to identify distinctive patterns and behaviors in the women I interviewed.  I categorized these into four separate "stages" that women often experience during the course of their long-term relationships. The stages begin with a loss of sexual desire.
 


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Stage 1
Women at Stage 1 feel as though something is missing in their lives. They have all the things that they wanted - a home, a family, a great husband - but they feel they should be happier. Over time, many women in this stage begin to lose interest in sex. It is not uncommon for them to spend a great deal of energy trying to avoid physical contact with their husbands because they fear it might lead to a sexual encounter. They frequently complain of physical ailments to avoid having sex and often try to avoid going to bed at the same time as their husbands. They view sex as a job, not unlike doing the dishes or going to the grocery store. Some women in Stage 1 claim they feel violated when their husbands touch them.  Their bodies freeze up and they feel tightness in their chest and/or a sick feeling in their stomach. The majority of women in Stage 1 feel as though there is something wrong with them, that they are in some way defective. They are also fearful that their disinterest in sex will cause their husbands to cheat, or worse yet, leave them.
 
Stage 2
Women at Stage 2 experience reawakened desire stimulated by an encounter outside the marital relationship. Whether these encounters with a "new" man involves sex or remain platonic, women will typically give a tremendous amount of emotional significance to these encounters.
Many women in this stage haven't felt any sexual desire for a long time. Many experience tremendous guilt and regret, regardless of whether their new relationships are sexual, merely emotional, or both. Most begin to experience what could be termed an identity crisis - even those who try to put the experience behind them. Constant reminders are everywhere. They feel guilt when the topic of infidelity arises, whether in the media, in conversations with family and friends, or at home with their husbands. Women in this stage can no longer express their prior disdain for infidelity without feeling like a hypocrite. They feel as though they have lost a part of themselves. Reflecting society's belief that women are either "good" or "bad," women will question their "good girl" status and feel that they might not be deserving of their husbands. Many will try to overcome feelings of guilt by becoming more attentive toward and appreciative of their husbands. However, over time many women will move from appreciation to justification. In order to justify their continued desire for other men, women will begin to attribute these desires to needs that are not being met in their marriage, or to their husband's past behavior. Many women will become negative and sarcastic when speaking of their husbands and their marriages and it is not uncommon for an extramarital affair to follow.
 


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Stage 3
Women at Stage 3 are involved in affairs, ending affairs, or contemplating divorce. Women who are having affairs experience feelings unlike anything they have experienced before. They feel "alive" again and many believe they have found their soul mates. These women are experiencing feelings associated with a chemically altered state, or what is typically referred to as being in love.
These women are also typically in tremendous pain, the pain of choosing between their husbands and their new love interests. They typically believe that what they are doing is wrong and unfair to their husbands, but yet are unable to end their affairs. Many often try several times. Prior to meeting with their lovers, they will vow that it will be the last time, but they are unable to stick with their decisions.
Unable to end their extramarital relationships, women at Stage 3 conclude that their lovers are soul mates because they are unaware that they have become addicted to the high caused by chemicals released during the initial stages of a relationship. Many live in a state of limbo for years. "Should I stay married or should I get a divorce?" this is the question continuously on the minds of women at Stage 3 - it is also common for women at this stage to attempt to initiate a separation. In most cases, husbands of women at Stage 3, will launch futile attempts to make their wives happy by being more attentive, spending more time at home and helping out around the house. Regardless of women's past and present complaints, the last thing women at Stage 3 want, is to spend more time with their husbands.
The reason many women will give for their desire to separate is a "search for self." They convince their husbands that they might be able to save their marriage if they can just have time to themselves. They tell their husbands that time apart is the only hope of improving their current situation. Women at this stage want to free themselves of the restrictions of marriage and spend more time with their lovers. Most think that eventually their confusion will disappear.  They think they will eventually know with certainty whether they want to stay married or get divorced and be with their lovers. Separation allows women at this stage, to enjoy the high they experience with their lovers without giving up the security of their marriages. Husbands of Stage 3 women are often unaware that their wives are having affairs. Their lack of suspicion is typically due to their wife's disinterest in sex and in their belief that their wife is a "good girl."

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Women at Stage 3 may also be experiencing the ending of an extramarital affair, and the ending may not have been their decision. They may have been involved with single men who either lost interest because the relationship could not progress or who became attracted to another women who was single. Women whose affairs are ending often experience extreme grief. They may become deeply depressed and express tremendous anger toward their husbands. They are typically unaware that they are experiencing chemical withdrawal due to sudden changes in their brain chemistry. As a result, many will feel that they have missed their chance at happiness due to their indecisiveness.
Believing they have become more aware of what they want and need from a mate, women at this stage will often place the utmost importance on finding a "new" relationship that will give them the feeling they experienced in their affairs. A new relationship with a new partner will also represent a clean slate, a chance for these women to regain their "good girl" status. Some women will search for new partners during their separations. Others will return to their marriages, but not emotionally and still continue to search. Some women will resume sporadic sexual relations with their husbands in an effort to safeguard their marriage until they make a decision. Although they are often not sexually attracted to their husbands, desire is temporarily rekindled when they suspect their husbands are unfaithful, are contemplating infidelity, or when their husbands show signs of moving on.
 
Stage 4
The women in stage four included those who chose to stay married and continue their affairs and those who chose to divorce. Some of the women who continued their affairs stated that marital sex was improved by maintaining the extramarital relationship. Some thought the lover was a soul mate, but for one reason or another did not leave their husband and did not feel torn between the two. Others realized that their feelings were intensified by not sharing day-to-day living arrangements with their lover. Almost all of the women in this latter category were having affairs with married men. They believed their affairs could continue indefinitely without disrupting either partner's primary relationship.
The women who chose divorce and were in the beginning stages of a new relationship typically expressed relief at having finally made a decision and reported feeling normal again. Many of the divorced women who had remarried and were several years into their new marriages seemed somewhat reluctant to talk about the specifics of their past experiences. However, they did mention feelings of guilt and regret for having hurt their children and ex-spouses only to find themselves experiencing similar feelings in the new relationship. 

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Women are cheating whores
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That's exactly why I don't eat sun dried tomatoes.
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--> @Dr.Franklin
I suspect Ethang has got to you hey Doc?

He done broke you hasn't he? 
Now you are burning up this handle and you will soon be someone else. 


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Good game.
Good game.

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The majority of people in hell are the ones that have been lied to, 
The one's whom lived their life in and according to a different religious group. 
They've been told stories from some blokes and made out to believe that A God said this and that.
Thus taking them further from ever knowing the REAL God way.  
They pray to nothing.  They fast for Nothing. They spent A lifetime doing this random nonsense that they think ummmmm " helps them ". 
AND ITS ALLLLLLL A BIG BIG LIE.  

So for being lied to and ending up in a false religious group getting chocked over. 
According to your religion. ACCORDING TO YOUR GOD.
IT'SSSSSS PUNISH HIM. 
They will burn in hell for eternity because of it. 
 





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Money.

The God.

And the Devil.
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Launching a new troll enterprise, are we.

I must say, it's not your best work. Far too long, far too obvious.
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The problem is that Hell doesn't exist. It's a sexist religion's concept of how they punish the evil, therefore it is inherently designed to prefer a masculine type of follower. It's also why monks were historically 'respected' and revered as authoritative in their communities while nuns are seen to 'serve' the community.
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Only Islam and Christianity have Hell. They are both sexist religions.
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I have never seen anyone suffer like the believing woman.
-A'isha ("favorite" wife of the self-proclaimed prophet)
There is more truth in this one statement alone than the entirety of Islam.

Islam is full of women who are themselves in the hell that is Islam.

In the same way it takes any believer to believe evil is good,
it takes a believer to believe:

infidelity is fidelity (Muhammad was himself an infidel man)
immoral sexual degeneracy/abuse is moral (idol of Muhammad establishes a precedent for pedophilia)
war is peace (Islam perpetually divides humanity between believer vs. unbeliever)
hatred is a virtue (Qur'an/Muhammad incites hatred against unbelievers)
problem is a solution (Islam is a problem, not a solution)

The polygamous nature of Islam will eventually lead to the extinction of women off the face of this planet: Muhammadan men treat women as expendables/expenditures because that is how Muhammad treated them, and Muhammad is the idol of Islam.

It also takes a believing idol worshiper to believe they are *not* worshiping an idol. Islam is pure idol worship and certainly ignorant-in-and-of-itself having absolutely no conscious knowledge of its own ignorance: thus perpetually blaming others for what it is itself guilty of (ie. psychological projection; mark of Cain).

It is also the root of fascism/socialism/Nazism and responsible for more genocide than any other comparable 'state': accusing others of being 'supremacist' while believing their book is superior to any/all other documents on the face of the planet.

Islam is pure madness. How they spill blood over dead men and blame others for their own spilling of blood.
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I suspect Ethang has got to you hey Doc?

He done broke you hasn't he? 
Now you are burning up this handle and you will soon be someone else. 


Oh thats not it
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Islam is right about women

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very bad no no
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@rm

Islam is right about women
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are you talking about women cheating, because MONEY is VERY MUCH INCLUDED
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Islam is right about women
A'isha was right about women.

Being a woman, she has more say
than Muhammad does/did.

Else: belief-based ignorance
as Islam is, was, and shall be
worshiping a dead infidel man
believing evil is good.

Let inf = 0 (as a folded circle)
-2 (any/all) <-*infinitude
-1 KNOW
0 I AM (willing to)...(equal capacity for so-called good/evil: +/-)
+1 BELIEVE
+2 (*not to*) <-*negation
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-(0 = 0 - 1 - 2 + 2 + 1 = 0) KNOW (any/all) (*not to*) BELIEVE
+(0 = 0 + 1 + 2 - 2 - 1 = 0) BELIEVE (*not to*) (any/all) KNOW

0- (leads to:) (inverse of) vvvvvvvv
0+ (leads to:) SUFFERING/DEATH
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(-+) is to (lieve) TREE OF LIVING
(+-) is to (eveil) TREE OF KNOWLEDGE OF GOOD AND EVIL

It is why BELIEVERS are BACKWARDS: like a law that governs.

Islam = taking a dead man as a model of living viz. idol worship.
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Again.
It's obvious that women didn't create these things called religious group

I'd have it a guess that a religious boy at around 10 years old puts God above Mum, and thats well, what i am ttrying to say is. 
Religious people love their mothers less FULL STOP 


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make some sense