Sex Before Marriage !

Well first of all I cant say I haven't been there before I have which is exactly why I wanna debate this topic. It all stems from early in the ten age years peer pressure sex ed movies tv shows and all that stuff it is a brainwashed society that we have been raised in to believe this is good but from what I've noticed is the opposite from personal experience and just flat out proof and knowledge now women and men are different physiologically biologically etc. their brains just work in a different way I've noticed through watching my friends growing up the way we would speak about sex is not necessarily true because of the way we were all raised as kids and now porn on top of all of it twist what it means true sex a great bond that it creates. Is now tossed around like something just ordinary and everyday thing between 2 people that barely know each other. It pulled men away from seeing the actual true value of the women and it made women view men as abusive dogs. If 2 people were to jump in bed before marriage it's a high percentage rate that there is some kind of drug involved including alcohol heartbreaks and nothing that logically makes sense then there is the chance of the female getting pregnant and these 2 people who don't know each other have a kid then the kid gets confused damage and traumatized by this but even without the female getting pregnant there are chances of aids or any sexually transmitted diseases. Including the fact of inner loneliness that all this creates and then you look into the studies of all these porn stars committing suicide and you think to yourself they have it all right well it's the other way around and I'm sure females for instance will never forget the first guy vice versa if everyone waited until marriage and stuck with it think about divorce rates the abortion numbers the abuse numbers and suicide numbers how much they would go down in America.