Should wives obey their husbands?

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Take is easy pal!
Alrighty?
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I thinking you're ducking out of the point. Not just now .

In a partnership, does only one take on the name of the other only?
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Are you trying to be the head of me?

I don't think you believe in that stuff so don't be hypocritical in giving somebody else directions.....comrade .
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@Mall
I am supporting you like you want me to support women who obey their husbands mate!
Take it easy, cowboy!
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You're a hypocrite.
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Alrighty now!
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Exposing you guys.
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Exposing you guys.
Isn't that the point of our Big Bang Club?
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Does he mean 'exposing' as in undressing us????
I think i am gonna report that one!
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@Mall
Nope, I think that I stated, that people are never equal.

Even so, superiority is not always measured by physical strength and/or aggressive domineering male behaviour.


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Superiority is always measured by what is actually superior . Appreciate your conceding.

They said you were banned. 
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What is the demographic on here?

Is it 97 percent highschool folks, recent highschool folks?
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Is it 97 percent highschool folks, recent highschool folks?
  Dagnabbit!
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Surely 97% Cowboys...
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I'll be on discord live within the hour. LucyStarfire is expected to be there as well .
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Are you gonna illegaly stream a western film? In that case i will be there. Good job cowboy!
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No in all seriousness, we're going to be discusses current event topics.
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I know. Debate craft right?
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A discussion comrade. A discussion.
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I meant the discord thing
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There you go.
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@Mall
Yep, the Ratman loves to try and wield his influence and ban people.


And a woman is just as likely to be intellectually superior to her male partner.

In fact, generally, girls out perform boys in all areas of education. 
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@zedvictor4
Not the area of specialising and changing thing. Women learn wider range easier, men break moulds and invent far more often.
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Papa is very strong farmer and maman is intelligent auditeur. They have love and respect for each other.
Papa, he does not control maman.
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@zedvictor4
That's why the male is to be older than the female. On average that is the disparity in relationship marriage.

So the maturity matches better or is even superior from the man.
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Do you support women that obey their husbands?
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@Mall
Certainly for young girls who are forced upon lecherous older men.

But I've no respect for that type of relationship.

Especially if the girl is denied educational opportunities.


Pierre aptly described the basis of a good partnership.


Out of interest Mall, where do you reside.

As you seem to have older style patriarchal principles.
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@zedvictor4
I reside with the truth. Men and women are not completely equal. You even stated some unequal performance standards and there's more to go with that.

So there will have to be some dominance somewhere. A person taking on another's name is not equality and not a partnership. There's some recognition of that in marriage.  

Now there are folks that push for the illusion of complete equality, push for partnership, shun away from leadership, shun away from obedience and reject name changing or accept a compromise with a hyphenated name.

So men and women often times are of different ages typically the man is older due to the unequal growth of maturity, the gravitation is to a matching level which also can supercede.


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@Mall
So are you embarrassed or afraid to name you place of residence?

And in old style patriarchal societies, if you perpetually enforce gender inequality, then that will be the outcome for women.

And marriage and name taking is a traditional but unnecessary contractual arrangement, outdated in a lot of progressive societies.

And inequality is an unavoidable state of two people in the same room...Whether that be two males, two females or a male and a female.

How people intellectually apply their superiority will vary, largely due to social conditioning...Obeyance and subservience is one example...Respect and tolerance is another.

So I'm guessing that you were not taught to appreciate the existence of a woman in the same way that I was...For you she is basically a mother, and a slave who's job it is to wash your dirty underwear.

Whereas I know how to operate a washing machine.
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FYI, my wife of 40 years is 2 years older than me.  She tells her friends that I am her boy toy.