So are you embarrassed or afraid to name you place of residence?
And in old style patriarchal societies, if you perpetually enforce gender inequality, then that will be the outcome for women.
And marriage and name taking is a traditional but unnecessary contractual arrangement, outdated in a lot of progressive societies.
And inequality is an unavoidable state of two people in the same room...Whether that be two males, two females or a male and a female.
How people intellectually apply their superiority will vary, largely due to social conditioning...Obeyance and subservience is one example...Respect and tolerance is another.
So I'm guessing that you were not taught to appreciate the existence of a woman in the same way that I was...For you she is basically a mother, and a slave who's job it is to wash your dirty underwear.
Whereas I know how to operate a washing machine.