Men build their self-worth on being admired. Women build theirs on being desired.
This is not the same thing. The opposite of admiration is treating someone as either ordinary or, worse, inferior to the norm. This will break a male in a way it won't break a female no matter how harsh you are to her so long as you keep her feeling desired.
Conversely, the inverse of feeling desired is to feel disgusting and/or at the very least too bland to even desire. So while both loathe feeling bland or normal it is about being above the norm in how bad you WANT the person that will make a woman's heart flutter even non-romantically and it is the feeling that you RESPECT a man and hold his qualities and productivity in high-worth no matter what his unique skill(s) may be that make his heart flutter.
This is true beyond transgenderism and beyond even hormonal changes and operation, it's raw brain chemistry and built into the networking between the subconscious and the conscious. They will never ever do this test as the politically correct world won't give the funding. The truth is men were designed to dominate women and women were designed to enjoy being fought over by men they can choose between to admire. This was the raw truth of the humans that led to us dominating the whole planet and all other species. Do not deny the truth, you will be a fool in how you handle the different genders if you don't comprehend this vital thing. Fail to admire a male colleague and/or boss, it doesn't matter how pleased you show yourself to be by their presence, they will learn to dislike you and thus to avoid you. In contrast, admire your female boss and/or colleagues all you want, they will NON-FRIEND and NON-ROMANCE zone you all at once. They only care about how pleased you are to SEE them to be NEAR them, to be in their fucking presence, to have earned their attention alone should be the reward you bask in. Do this, and no female will hate you for long regardless of your harshness towards her. Life is not complicated but it IS a puzzle. Know the pieces, it's simple, deny the puzzle pieces and their interactions and you will find it infinitely complex.