That's obviously not what I am saying. I am saying that users--and people in general--should be able to control their anger. Rage is not an excuse for misconduct. Period.
Basically you're saying everyone needs to be like you. Besides that your just not getting it. If someone is mad at you, even if it isn't rage just mad, it is a weird request for them to give you a respectful message. Really, all you have to do is be respectful and mindful and you'll never run into this again. But if you do... don't expect someone you offended to be cordial.
"to preempt the disclosure ONLY in the event that such a disclosure would jeopardize the safety or privacy rights of another user."
You can't stop this from happening if it's going to happen. I would agree with you that a ban should ensue if someone does this. That's all you can do. Not expect someone mentioned above will be cordial. Everything else you can do once you see the thread. And since you are responsibly warning people, a rebuttal to their concern should be easy. You know you have time to respond once you see it right? A heads up makes no sense and only comes off as i'm in charge so do my bidding. It's abuse of your position.
I am getting your point. I don't think you're getting mine--in fact, you fundamentally misconstrued what I said regarding triangle.
God here you go again, no you're not getting it. I am not misconstruing what you said. I'm telling you even if you make it known it wasn't a warning... to a user that isn't your friend... it will always come off as a warning. In this case, a bias one at that. So you think micro-managing is a good precedent? Do you have time to warn everyone that says "idiot" ... no i don't think you do and what happens is you start choosing people you disagree with. I don't respond to this stuff when i don't see a problem, there is def. a problem with this precedent.