"You said sexual orientation was achoice, I find that very interesting, it was not a choice for me, I don’t thinkyou realize what a curiosity you are."
Please quote exactly where I said " sexual orientation was achoice". Word for word , not paraphrased but in exact wording please.
How about no, you said it was achoice, and that is what I’m responding to, that is what I find interesting,the parsing words game that is played here is not in any way interesting to me. You said it, you know you said it, quitplaying games. You experienced your sexualorientation differently than I did, very differently, I did not have a choicein the matter, and aside from you, I don’t know any one that did. I’m trying to understand your point of viewis all.
"I wouldn’t know, does it have something to do with decorating, accessorizing, maybe flamboyance? "
Let's go over the definition of gay or gayness. At least when I use the terms.
We aren’t gonna start with that “weall get to have our own definition of words” thing are we, when these conversationsstoop to that level it is no longer interesting, valuable, or informative, whenyou play the definitions card, it becomes nothing but a meaningless game. Weall know what the word “gay” means, let's move on.
Maybe you use them differently. It's having the an attraction sexually between to males and or engaging in the act of sexual activity between the two. Having some affiliation with that.
Close enough, you said homosexualityis a choice, it logically follows that you “chose” your own orientation, isthat the case or is it not the case?
So yes that is how it is acted out.
"I think I understand, you have homosexual desires, but you choose to not act on them, and that is what makesit a choice for you, is that it?"
Do you actually want a serious dialogue or are you looking to just ad hominem attack?
I suppose if you were homophobic youcould see my curiosity as an ad hominem attack, but that isn’t my intent, youchose your sexual orientation, that means it could have gone either way foryou, I think that is fascinating, it is completely foreign to my normalheterosexual way of thinking, and so I want to understand it, why are you afraidto discuss it?
I'm not here to attack anybody. Take no offense please.
I take no offense, why would I carethat you had to choose to be heterosexual, nothing offensive about that, I just find itinteresting, very interesting. I guessthe question becomes, why are you so uncomfortable with my questions, are youashamed?
The rest of what you had to say was getting personal. I understand if this subject is sensitive but let us not get personal.
You shared something about yourself that was interesting,and by all accounts it’s somewhat unique, I don’t see how we can discusssomething that is unique about you without it being personal. Why does it make you uncomfortable to discussit? Are you sorry you revealed that about yourself?
