Empathy is for hypocrites.
Hypocrites will say something like, "Save the starving children of color in Gaza" and then never adopt a Gazan child. They will say "racism is bad" and then have np adopting a Ukranian child but would never dare to adopt a Gazan one.
I'm not empathetic towards the Gazan children; IDGAF if they live or die; but at least I'm not a hypocrite.
Hell, I'd want to bring back child slavery; I'd be a hypocrite if I didn't. All my electronics were made by child slaves.
If empathy and hypocrisy are a package deal, then I flat out don't want it.