Yes your definition was correct...I agreed....Physiological abnormalities are separate issues.
All relationships are social constructs...You agree....Not genetics...Whoopty freakin do!
Societies require conformity...We agree.
No one mentioned fetishes...We were discussing standard recreational sex choices....No whipped cream necessary.
Life long same sex relationships....Most creatures will have life long same sex relationships of some description.....You still need to elaborate upon this, as it's not yet a substantive argument.
Data in, data assessment, data storage, data out. Choice is the process of analysing data and making a decision.
The point was, we are not discussing anything new. Homosexual recreational sex is an old hat, time worn option. But nowadays we have more elaborate explanations as to why why we make the decisions that we do.
Urgency....Sex act.....Temporary satisfaction achieved.....Roll over and go to sleep....And repeat....Same old same old.
Justification not required....Ah!....Unfortunately not so......Hence "Being gay isn't a chioce".
What is really being asked is......It is OK for a man to enjoy recreational sex with another man isn't it.
And I say yes it is, it's absolutely fine, a perfectly functional solution to ones unavoidable requirements.... Has been for donkey's years, so stop making a song and dance about it....And give the whipped cream a go.....Your choice though.