YouFound_Lxam

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• Lxam's persistent but worthless contortions in search of distinction come from a lack of generosity of spirit.  Let's recall that Lxam began this effort six weeks ago with the stated purpose of "exterminating transgenderism."  I don't find that purpose compatible with any American or Christian outlook although it is one of the core missions that Republicans have been assigned by their masters these days.  Scapegoats are good for getting bad people to vote.
  

 Seems to me that there are many social constructs that we can't define concretely....

The other problem here is that the leading alternative is Ron Desantis. While I do not share the opinion of many on the left that Desantis would be worse than Trump because he’s more competent, I have grown more concerned about how dangerous he is overall to the point where I don’t think he’s that far off.

So at this point, if it were Desantis and Trump I would root for Trump because I believe Desantis would have a much greater chance of winning in the general. If Desantis was no longer the leading challenger I would root for any republican regardless of how likely I thought they were to win because no one else in the field comes close to Trump - the risk just wouldn’t be worth it.

Feelings ergo emotions are real. People do make many decissions based feelings, emotion, heart, that all stem from our environmental set of circumstances.

People say to themselves, I think I can afford this or that, even tho many of us know, tha,t some large percentage of people and governental debit is way more than we should feel secure/comfortable with.

People drive too fast, and some times take chances, that, on considerate review later, was a dicey move, even they felt they could make it at the time, and 9 times out of 10 do make fine.  As long as the other driver{s} does do the unexpected and through a monkey wrench into our risk taking

Do we feel like taking a small, or large wager, on this bet or another, for what ever reasons, we feel may feel  justified to so some perecentage of time.

Yesterday there was greater percentage of rain chances in our area and it did not rain. Today there was last chances and we got three moderate and relatively short rain events and I had feelings about what is best bet for me on each day, based on perecentages.

Today I feel hungry and go to store and buy more than I really needed or could afford this week. Today I feel happy and choose to go shopping cause I feel so good, or go to river boating etc.

dont you think this lesson about disney is applicable to many other areas too? that maybe having gun free zones is often, if not usually, a better situation to be in?

we get it: you hate black people.   

Then your confused, as all feelings are emotion, and emotion stems from occupied space chemical reactions in molecules of our bodies, that, react to words, images, sounds, touch, etc. Do you understand

We cannot deny others feelings, and that does not make their, or our feelings, any less real.

however, their exist men who feel that the are more likened to woman and vice versa for woman feels more likened to being a  man. 

No, I don't.  I've never said anything of the kind.  That's your delusion.

 All I'm saying is that you haven't fixed as many of the problems of the past as you seem to think.  Your "extermination" approach to Feminism certainly makes me think you'd have no problem burning witches.

 I didn't try anything.  I just read to you from  standard dictionaries and textbooks and you refused to believe science.  I'll repeat the central point that you dodged:  The burden of proof is on you to show that trans people are assaulting America and worthy of your programs of eradication.  Your desperate mental anguish caused by the fact that some trans men menstruate simply does not rise to a genocidable offense.

• Ideas are not ideologies.  I repeat again that its not that there is no ideology behind the whole sexual identity thing, its just that the ideology you are talking about is  properly called Feminism by people who have gone to college.
  

•  while allowing local school adminstrators (not fat white GOP governors looking for a vote from the bigots) to make exceptions wherever unfair phsyical advantages or increased risk of injury might undermine competition.
  

Do you get out much?

I think you will find most all of real women agree with the statements I have made especially women who are in sports. 

Wonder what mentally delusional men you are talking with. 

• A 2021 Ipsos poll found that 77% of American women believe that transgender people should be protected from discrimination, while 15% disagreed.
  
• A 2019 NPR/PBS NewsHour/Marist poll found that 69% of American women believed that transgender people should be allowed to use the bathroom that corresponds to their gender identity, while 25% disagreed.
  
• A 2021 PRRI survey found that 60% of American women believe that transgender people should be allowed to serve in the military, while 31% disagreed.
  

• A nice, conscise presentation of the feminist distinction between sex and gender.  You offer this an example of the unacceptable radicalism you intend to "exterminate" right?    Honestly, they kicked your ass with facts and never laid a single expectation on you, personally.    You are angry at science, not Feminism.
  

• That is exactly what psychopaths do.  You do understand we are talking about reality as is not as should be, don't you?
  

• Prove it
  

As the FBI says, domestic terrorism by white males is the single greatest security threat to America. 

•  White male rage over losing domination, particulary Southern Whites over black people fueled Trump's presidency and the current rise in gun violence as well as the attempted fraud/failed coup of the 2020 election.  It's all about white boys losing control.
  
• It is racist and it is also true.
  

So quit your doomsday whining about the future of the US.

Funny how only the straight white think they've fixed their mistakes of the past.

Every argument you've presented on this site has been demonstrated to be a lie. 

That's not a right I recognize when the birth gender confers a significant compettive advantage. I support the Biden Adiminstration's ban on broad discrimination in school sports while allowing local school adminstrators (not fat white GOP governors looking for a vote from the bigots) to make exceptions wherever unfair phsyical advantages or increased risk of injury might undermine competition.

• But the majority of women don't agree with your bigotry and ignorance, do they?
  

Also, the claim that Queer rights simply emerged from Feminism is a lie as well.

• As ever, your opinion lacks education.
  
• The Interconnection Between Women's Rights and LGBTQ Rights
  
• The Very Queer History of the Suffrage Movement
  
• APA:  "By the 20th century, a movement in recognition of gays and lesbians was underway, abetted by the social climate of feminism and new anthropologies of difference."
  

The CIA  has advised Americans that TikTok is Chinese spyware. Loyal Americans should get rid of TikTok ASAP.

• I generally don't accept the opinion of anonymous posters as sincere:  many poster are simply trying our arguments/ position.  I did flip throught Bella's debates and forum posts and couldn't find one mention of the word cisgender.
  

But the reality is that people are using this logic to define their own reality's whether you like it or not. 

• Everybody defines their own reality:  white boys do not get to control.
  

It is a fact that some trans men menstruate.

• Nobody is trying to alter your fragile reality- you can call men who mensturate trans or non-binary without doing any damage to your definition of men.
  

, YOU are the one making demands on other to change

 You are a white boy born in the wealthiest, freeest, most comfortble society in the history of mankind at its peak in terms of global influence, peace and power.  

AS A STATEMENT of ABSOLUTE FACT:  you are sittting in the top 1% of comfort and privilege found across all human history.

Most humans would happily give up an arm or a leg to live a life as nice as you have it.   NOBODY in history has had to struggle less than you.

Think of how for thousands of years, trans people couldn't express their non-conformity without risking rapid imprisonment and death.

• Right.  You insist that a 56 year old gay man can't possibly know about the gay community than a 16 year straight boy.  You can't even hear your arrogance, can you?
  

• False.  I was raised in a Roman Catholic, very conservative community founded by Spiro Agnew.    Trust me when I say what you conservatism today bears no resemblance to the Americans conservatism of twenty or thirty years ago.  Republicans have become Fascists very much in the fashion of 1930's Germany- autocrats hunting for scapegoats to exterminate.
  

• Nobody does.
  

• Rudy Giuliani, anybody?  Drag performances used to be a staple of prime tv,
  

• Nobody does
  

• That's good Psychiatric Science.  Donald Trump, for example, is not a pedophile but he has been famously open about his attraction to minors.
  

• I don't think that was the intent of the trans teen athletes and I think you are kind of evil if you thinks that was their intent.
  

Objectively and as a matter of history...

Nope, that isn’t what cisgender means, and it isn’thow the word is used.

• We don't.
  

• Fuck you.  I'll match my respect for women against the entire history of straight men's respect for women.  Queer rights emerged from Feminisim and speaking very generally, Queer people are many times more respectful of women then straight men, generally.
  

I have never met a queer person who expects any straight to accept the term cisgender.

 Thinking back over thousands of experience, every queer person I've ever known has been 100% fine with straight people identifying as "straight."  

• False.  Give me three specific examples of LGBTQ+ community  claiming that.
  

Are you coming out as mind-reader?  No.  Well, sorry to burst your bubble but there is only one reality that you can know the truth of and yes, your reality (quite obviously, in your case) is deeply rooted in your feelings.

Any claim you make to understand the reality of others is a fucking lie, a religious claim that the US Consititution me from.

You have no justification for threatening me with war or "eradication"

• On Balance, Feminism as a Whole has Done More Harm than Good
  

I can be Pro or Con. 

"so you think if this guy didn't have a gun, that he would have 1. first of all attempted to kill all those people 2. he would have been successful killing all those people?"

you didn't answer the question. see above. please answer. you think if he had a knife, he would have attempted to kill them all, and that he would have been successful? 

the point, is that people are more likely to murder others if they have a gun versus if they have other weapons. people are impulsive and a gun is a push a button response that other weopons aren't like that. 

people are impulsive and a gun is a push a button response that other weopons aren't like that. 

Not sure what "close to a child's age" means, did you have significant sexual experience before and after? If not how can you know? I assume it isn't a great loss while urinating.

Lol, none of your statements make any sense.

The testimony of someone who lost their foreskin involuntarily or through some medical necessity would be the only kind I would give full credence to.

so you think if this guy didn't have a gun, that he would have 1. first of attempted to kill all those people 2. he would have been successful killing all those people?

people who think the presence of guns makes no difference in murder rate, lack critical thinking skills. 

So you admit that it's just wishful thinking, you have no solution, you are just whining.

You mean a totalitarian government does it.

The problem is people are doing the things you listed, and your solution is to imagine that they aren;t doing these things?  That's the plan?  OK, but how do you implement this amazing plan, magic?  Wishful thinking?   Totalitarianism perhaps?

If there were less guns, there would be less mass-shootings ergo, less of the terrorism scare, that folks like Timothy McVeigh, Una-bomber, serial murders and rapist inflict on our psychic well being. Regulating guns is just one part of complex problem that requires many avenues of consideration. Ex help of mentally ill, and society where all are feel they are respected.

It was a right only for people participating in Well Regulated Militias. It says why they offered this right in the text of the 2A. The country also didn’t have, and didn’t want a standing Federal army at the time this was written.

A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.

So if you are not in a well regulated militia, you are shit out of luck

The Constitution also counted black slaves as 3/5ths of a person for the purposes of representation and taxation. Times change genius.

We have asked again and again, what are you proposing as a solution?  You do not answer the question.  You aren't arguing for anything but intolerance and bigotry, you are simply hatemongering, with the only apparent goal to be recruitment, spreading fear, resentment, and hatred.  Is that about it?  That's all we see, there is nothing of substance to your argument, just bigoted rants...

...or do you propose a solution, given full authority, how do you resolve the so called "problem"?  You said the transgender "ideology will bring about the end of civilization, are you just saying we can save the world if we all just hated more, is that what you are going for? 

Tell us what you want to do about it, solve the problem, save us from the fall of civilization, what's the plan? 

Schools are just a reflection of society.   Is it indoctrination to teach kids to share or stand in line and take turns?    Who are you so say that selfishness is wrong?   Is it indoctrination to require that girls and boys wear shoes?  Who are you to say that being barefoot is wrong?  Is it indoctrination to have them pledge allegiance to the flag or learn the rules of grammar or have boys go to shop while girls go to home ec?   Schools used to teach from the bible.   Schools used to teach that blacks were inferior to whites.   The question of women's sufferance used to be a political issue.   The concept of people owning other people used to be a political issue.    There are no hard clear answers to what is right and wrong and what's a religious and political agenda.    People on the Left and Right disagree.   I respect that there are differences, but what I don't respect are people like you who think they get to be the moral authority on what's right or wrong and then act as if it's an obvious truth.   There are people on the left who do the same thing.   At least recognize what you are doing and stop being a hypocrite.     Have whatever view you want, but stop pretending that YOU know what the moral truth is and that everyone else is wrong.    At least have the humility to admit you are just fighting for your ideas the same as everyone else.  Schools are in an impossible situation and are caught in the middle.

Blind, deaf, and crippled people get along fine in our society.

 When I said it's natural, I meant that gay and trans people exist and are part of human kind.  That's a fact.  You can hate them or deny their existence, but that doesn't change reality.

Beyond that, what I'm asking you is why can't you just tolerate them?

  Even if you think trans people are making it up or just fooling themselves, what does it hurt you to tolerate them?

 I think people who think Jesus will come back and rescue all the Christians in Revelations style are delusional.  I think people who think everyone should own a gun are delusional. 

People have a right to believe stupid things.   

You just don't like trans people and don't think they should be tolerated.    That's the real problem with people like you.

But you don't really want have that talk.  You don't just want to stop trans people from limiting your freedom.    You want trans people to not have freedom even in cases where it doesn't affect your freedom.

That's what makes YOUR agenda the most sinister and corrosion society and democracy itself. 

First it's not a kids decision any more than a kid can decide to get his tonsils removed.   Parents are involved. 

 In most cases, in those very rare cases where kids engage in drug therapy or puberty blockers, it's usually a positive outcome beneficial to their mental health in a big way.

I appreciate your honesty here, but again, who's pushing their ideology/agenda now?     I agree that if someone drives drunk they should lose their drivers license.  I agree that if someone assaults someone else they should have their freedom taken away (for a while), but when it comes to people making choices that essentially don't affect others, that's their business.

You don't have to like transpeople.  In fact, I think you have a right to hate them.  But you don't have a right to tell them they can't exist when their existence does you no harm.

 The reason the Right is so obsessed with transpeople is because you're being manipulated by the GOP and those who want to use our democracy to gain power.  The Ds do the same thing through different means and methods, but you guys on the Right are really really good at the fear stuff and you've got the whole judgy religious thing which goes way back.

We got along fine without mental health for children for thousands of years too, if getting along fine means committing suicide or an unhappy life.

So when you were a prepubescent child and you saw a pretty girl and then you say an handsome boy, how long was it until you decided that the girl was pretty and you were attracted to her and didn't see the boy that way?  Did you ponder it for days and weeks?   How long did it take for you to decide to be straight?

I guess I'm not sure what we're arguing about here.    People were men and women long before there was paperwork to prove or determine it.

Why would I agree to that?   Most do if not consciously, then unconsciously and it's not necessarily a bad thing.   I'm of the school that it's better to teach kids how to think, not WHAT to think, but the nature of humankind is to pass down ideas and concepts.  Were it not so, we'd all still be living in caves.

 I do believe people who are gay or trans are just following their true nature and for most people it doesn't come without a fight and a resistance. 

You should try having this conversation with a person who's actually gay or trans and see if you can at least come to appreciate that they aren't faking it and that this is a real thing that people feel and are.

Biology doesn't intend anything.  Do you mean evolution?   It's a nuanced process tempered by time and the human evolution of ideas and concepts of morality.  There's a reason we don't only practice might makes might.   Compassion, empathy, and forgiveness are strategies for success. 

Being a good or loving parent has nothing to do with being gay or straight.

there have always been gay and trans people.   Some cultures throughout human history have tolerated and included them.  Others exclude banish or kill them. 

Some kids starve themselves to death to fit in or dress rebelliously, etc.   Some of what we are seeing as nonbinary may be a part of that.  

Most straight men come to realize as they get older than being a man is more than biology.   How much sense does it make for a man to throw his life away in war?   It makes a lot of sense depending now how that man views himself in society and who he is as a person.  

Stop there a second.  Has it become a big deal?   My life hasn't changed at all in anyway since gays were legally allowed to marry. 

Is there rioting in the streets? 

Are kids from gay parents turning out to be horrible people?  

Is Jesus raining down lighting bolts?

Pedophilia is not at an all time high, but even if it was, there's no connection with being gay or being trans and pedophilia.

Gay, straight, and trans people are all capable of being horrible persons.     People had the same concerns about black men becoming free or voting and then the same things were said about women getting the vote.    Same thing was said about democracy and religious tolerance and yet we got over it.   We'll get over trans people too.   Your kids or your grandkids won't care the same way you don't really care that women have the right to vote or that your neighbor doesn't belong to your church.  

I don't want to get off track here, but I think the real problem behind the bathroom issue is that society has a twisted and sexist perception of "men" in general.   People seem to think that men are going to grope and rape women most any time when no one's looking.   It's the sexist view society has of men that make this a big issue, but no one ever talks about that.

So, to rephrase the question, are you seeing a lot of problems with transmen preying on women in womens' bathrooms?

 That means some 800,000 transwomen are using mens' bathrooms right now.

That said, I'll grant you that abuse of women is more common, sexually or otherwise.

Parents: Daddy is married to Daddy.

Kids: Why?

Parents: Because we like each other, and we are able to create a family.

Kids: How?

Parents: Through love

Kids: But that teenager YouFound_Lxam said you can't create a family

Parents:  But we are are a family...and that teenager is just a bigoted asshole, ignore him..