Women should only date men with the same or higher body count as them
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- Why does this only apply to one gender and one sexual orientation?
- What does the body count have to do with the success of your relationship? Well, your resolution at that point, the correct words would be, what does the body count have to do with you dating someone as long as you love them?
- What if a woman wants to date someone but they have a lower body count, now they just can't date them?
- What if they don't even care about body count?
Well I think the reason why I say women instead of men and women is because majority of Women in comparison to men has more bargaining powers than men when finding someone date, so if females wants to choose who they want to go out with men should be able to avoid females that they wouldn't normally go for in their preferential circumstances and lower the overall risk of men bending or suppressing their own ideals to a have a relationship with a female. As this will generally improve the matchmaking of relationships.
- Men should be able to avoid that they wouldn’t go for because of their preferential circumstances
- Lowers the overall risk of bending or suppressing their preferences
- Overall (conclusion) improves matchmaking of relationships
woman have more bargaining powers than men when finding someone date
"Men should be able to avoid that they wouldn’t go for because of their preferential circumstances" - summarized version
Lowers the overall risk of bending or suppressing their preferences - summarized version
Overall improves matchmaking of relationships
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- Trust: Dating someone with a similar sexual experience can help build trust and reduce anxiety around sexual history and potential STI risks.
- Communication: Dating someone with a similar sexual experience can make it easier to communicate about sexual preferences, boundaries, and expectations.
- Comfort: Some individuals may feel more comfortable dating someone with a similar sexual experience, as it can reduce feelings of insecurity or inadequacy.
First of all I want to applaud your argument thank you for time time to challenge this question.
With that being said is still think some of the hypotheticals you have used does not apply to the general census of women. First of all before make my other points let me answer your questions
1. Why does this only apply to one gender and one sexual orientation? - As already said a Majority of women controls the bargaining chip of an relationship over men. Therefore, their should be a restriction in place with such power over a potential relationship. However it the roles the switched it will still be the same rules for men over women (this scenario is rarely is the case in most relationships or talking stages for men)
2. What does the body count have to do with the success of your relationship? Well, your resolution at that point, the correct words would be, what does the body count have to do with you dating someone as long as you love them? - I understand your views however, its not about if you love them at the start of a relationship it vocalizing your ideals before taking the extra step within a relationship to maintain a health communication in the relationship. Furthermore, MEN only most MEN uses a females body count as a dictation of if the man would want to pursue the relationship with potential negatives that may trail the female e.g. Relationship baggage. With that being said this is only based of a majority of relationship but there has been relationship that has worked for people that has vastly different body counts and advance/more sexual experiences that loves each other I totally agree but as you may or not know that is rare in to todays dating space unfortunately.
For men, there can be societal pressure to date women who are perceived as sexually experienced. This may be because of traditional gender roles that define men as the initiators of sexual activity and women as the receivers. Some men may also see sexual experience as a sign of confidence or independence in a woman.
On the other hand, some women may prefer to date men who have had fewer sexual partners because they believe it indicates that the man is more committed or faithful. They may also be concerned about the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or unwanted pregnancies.
It is important to note that sexual experience does not define a person's character or worth. Every individual has the right to choose their sexual partners and explore their sexuality in a way that feels comfortable and safe for them.
Preferences on dating people with different sexual experiences can be influenced by a variety of factors, including personal beliefs, cultural and societal norms, and individual experiences. Ultimately, it is up to each person to decide what they are looking for in a partner and to communicate openly and honestly with potential partners about their sexual preferences and expectations. However,
Shared values: Dating someone with a similar sexual experience can indicate shared values and beliefs about sex and intimacy, which can be important in building a strong relationship.
- Trust: Dating someone with a similar sexual experience can help build trust and reduce anxiety around sexual history and potential STI risks.
2. Communication: Dating someone with a similar sexual experience can make it easier to communicate about sexual preferences, boundaries, and expectations.
3. Comfort: Some individuals may feel more comfortable dating someone with a similar sexual experience, as it can reduce feelings of insecurity or inadequacy.
Ultimately, whether or not someone prefers to date people with different or similar sexual experiences is a personal choice that should be respected. It is important for individuals to communicate openly and honestly with potential partners about their sexual preferences and expectations to ensure a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
- Pro has dropped two of my contentions, all of my contentions.
- Pro has proved nothing except helping my arguments.
- Overall, pro has technically conceded this debate by supporting my side. Of course, not an official concession.
- Women should not only date men with the same or higher body count as them because preferences differ and some people have a different factors that lead to their relationship.
BoP failure. Con was able to counter everything with the fact that different people have different preferences, and a lack of benefits shown in throwing those out. Pro eventuality brought up STDs, but I could not understand where he was going with it; and there was also something about ho men prefer more experienced partners, which kinda goes against the grain of the resolution. Further con pointed out different sexualities, which invalidates the resolution when considering it would force lesbians to date men.
Also, it wasn’t until R2 that it became clear this about about sex instead of the number of kills.
I wish Pro knew how to argue this. This topic is kinda my thing.
I sure hope not the number of kills..
I put it through an AI detector
In my opinion I disagree wasn't trying to pursue that path of a political approach as much as you'd like to think the only reason why I somewhat side with the cons is because the there are some points that are valid and should be recognized that is opposed to the argument and vice versa. The fact that views are perceived as political somehow I'll never know but to say that it is AI generate is pretty inaccurate and brutal but if that's your take It look like didn't make my points clear enough within correlation to my own opinions.
Yeah, thanks. I was confused when more than half of pros arguments were supporting my arguments rather than against them.
The ladder half of Tainted's response is written by AI. That's why it switches to being politically correct and starts arguing your side.
Just because it's okay to be a virgin doesn't mean every woman has to date a man with the same or higher body count.
It's fine to have a higher body count than a man and be in a steady relationship.
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As far as my argument goes, I don't expect much from a two round debate. Maybe if it was 5 rounds, but it's not. So as of right now I won't be throwing out all my cards on this debate.
I very much agree even though I think it shouldn't be a law I think it should highly vocalized and at least let people know it okay to be a virgin before getting married instead of promoting this "late Bloomer" stigma
I don't know where people keep getting these ideas about women dating/marrying men who have the same body count or, in this case, even higher body count.
And why does this not apply for men?
This is one of the stupidest things I won't ever understand.
I think the ideal body count of every man and woman who isn't married is 0. Don't have sex unless your married. I don't think this should be law, but it's a recommendation.