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@Raltar
Don't take this as a "personal attack" but to be bluntly honest, you are really a moderator in name only. The other mods rarely allow you to make decisions and even then only when all three of them are forced to recuse themselves. You don't even get the little crown next to your name like they do. You are like a "half-mod" at best.
Nope, that's just accurate. Thank goodness.
Except for the "all three". I get called in if either bish or Virt are recused -- and also if both are recused, obviously. And Tej doesn't factor into it at all, as my recusal duties don't extend to vote handling.
So if a user criticizes YOU as being too "heavy handed" then I think we can safely dismiss that opinion as being too flatly absurd to even justify any meaningful response. It's like blaming a school crossing guard for sending too many black men to jail.
I think this comes too close to saying I'm not responsible for the decisions I do make. I can't hide behind my little crossing guard sign.
Furthermore, take note of the user who said this; Lots of forum activity, minimal debate participation.
Well, this is my issue with some of your dismissals. You just devalue the person making the complaint. And worse, you measure members' value based on their formal debate activity. I think that's really one-sided. Yeah, it's a debate site and debate is the main point, but there are both formal and informal debates. Informal debates take place in the forums.
Summary;As your own examples prove, the mod team clearly doesn't understand the real complaints that are coming from the community. We don't want "less" moderation. We want more consistent and appropriate moderation. The quality of debates and discourse needs to improve, users who exclusively troll the forums without any other meaningful participation need to be addressed and a better CoC needs to be written (and moderators need to actually obey it).
Not so. I've seen the consistency complaints, and I quite understand them. But it wasn't the existence of consistency complaints that you challenged when you quoted me. I was just defending my post, not addressing the totality of complaints or suggesting where the brunt of the criticism or fault lies.
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@Mopac
Who has more authority?
God, I thought.
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@Raltar
Phew, this may take me a while. Be patient with me.
So wait you banned people for just not participating in your forums? Why was that necessary?
You seem to think it's a problem that the average forumite is not interested in formal debates. While I'd be happy to see more formal debate activity, I think interest in formal debates is completely optional and I certainly don't expect it to be for everyone. It just kind of sounds like you think primary interest in formal debates is the "correct" way to use this site. Is that true?
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@Wylted
Ah, quit yer whinging and let it go, Wyl. Goodness. Why does there have to be so much drama. You actually confessed to me and others. There's no point pretending there was any doubt in that case. And btw, it's really time to put away this illusory myth that I am particularly well liked. So if you're going around thinking I'm dumb but popular you need to reduce that to just dumb, mkay.
I don't really blame you for the hate, though. I'd prolly hate me too, getting banned is no picnic. And I know you're going through some things right now. I definitely wasn't trying to make that worse for you. Heck, ignore my first sentence -- if having a go at my IQ and competence provides an outlet or is therapeutic for you in any way, then hit the gas. Trash dat bitch. Let me know if you need assistance. Like maybe a list of my top three stupidest mistakes irl.
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@Analgesic.Spectre
Nah, I still maintain it's not cool to go around judging people's whole lives from nothing but a few internet posts. And sorry, but come on, you could spot my quirkiness from Pluto. Anyone could see it. I don't think it really proves special skill in judgment of character.
Cassie is noted.
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@Analgesic.Spectre
But do you think this promotes the kind of intellectual, worthwhile, deep, and drama free discourse you're talking about in your OP? Or the shallow, petty, drama-ridden, drive-by sort of flamewar you also describe.I mock people when I don't think they're worth my time. Not everyone is susceptible to logic and reason. Some people are ideological zealots, of which are never going to consider alternative points of view. It's not my modus operandi to mock and humiliate everyone I encounter (just search for all the threads I've made), but the best tool against zealotry is ridicule.I also match the tone of my interlocutor. If he/she starts flinging insults, I'll match them with interest. No point in bringing logic to a mud-slinging match.
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@Analgesic.Spectre
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@RationalMadman
I'm just talking to Anal person to person right now, so I'm not asking my "rank" to mean anything to anyone.
I have really got to find a better nickname/shortening. Gesic? Spec? No, they don't fit. I'll find something.
Why do you think bish "yearns for their acceptance"?
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@Analgesic.Spectre
Eh that post was only "emotional" by, like, Vulcan standards (live long and prosper). As for irrelevant, I disagree -- you're talking about the quality of posts and discussions on this site, and I was talking about the quality of some of your own posts and what they contribute to discussions on this site. I think the kind of personal mocking you do can degrade rather than enrich discussion, and in fact create more of the very same petty drama and shallow discourse you're complaining about -- a complaint I think makes a valid point, btw. So I think it's pretty relevant.
It's cool to see you care about the site a bit more than it previously appeared, though. I mean, before now I would've expected you to point and laugh at someone who had written as much text about DART as you have now in this thread. No matter what I think of any of your posts, I do think people on the internet ought to have thick skins, and I'd rather have you around than not have you around. Dat controversy. Currently reading this baby.
It may have been early enough that it was actually Mike who banned you. In the first few weeks of DART, he banned a few people without talking to them. This was before a moderation interface had even been coded. I can definitely understand the objection to being banned without notice. That's against policy now. But I'm not certain it was Mike. Can't even recall why you were banned. I think I remember a flamewar where you and Rash were revealing behind-the-scenes behavior about a member that... disturbed me.
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@keithprosser
A few bells and whistles missing doesn't bother me much because while DArt might lack a spellchecker it does have a castin!
So it has nothing going for it, in other words. Damn, this site just can't catch a break.
I'd recommend trading me in for some bells and whistles but what merchant would take that crap deal.
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@Wylted
Getti g banned for insulting a mod who has openly stated people have a free pass to attack him. Taking a similar stance as what airmax took. Atleast openly taki g that stance despite using a fanboy of his to do his bidding
I'm not gonna tolerate the kind of behavior I saw in a moderated formal debate. Live with it.
I always wondered why you didn't just make an unmoderated debate for some "anything goes" fun. I would so have enjoyed that.
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@keithprosser
Can we really prove that unicorns don't exist?It is impossible to prove a negativeWhover invented that adage shouldhave been strangled at birth!There are unprovable statements, but being negative or positive has nothing to with it. Consider 'Unicorns exist' and 'unicorns don't exist'.
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@keithprosser
It means the curlers are still in the site's hair and it hasn't brushed its teeth or hairsprayed yet. I think?
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@Vader
Rofl"If I'm ever banned, please initiate a very large hyper-dramatic public thread demanding answers. Infer that whatever answer you get is a lie. Then accuse the mods of stealing your sandwich. Thank you in advance." -Raltar[Source]
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@bsh1
@Vader
+1Yo, it's almost Christmas. Can we all cool down the controversy until after the New Year? Like, some sort of truce until Jan. 2nd?
It's not a holiday without the family argument
Lol
I'll be inactive for a bit over holidays. It is only 1 day of me after today of this. Then I am basically out of your hair that entire week bc of social life, studying, etc.
I like having you around, Dudz. You're not "in our hair". It's just the subject matter, in this case.
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@keithprosser
Dizzying, I admit. But on DDO debates didn't get that kind of traffic.
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Honestly Anal, the quality of your own posts is often to merely mock users for participating in a site you yourself attend and apparently care enough about to make a 3 paragraph thread describing your feelings about. You seem to sort of go around judging people you don't know for leading lives you know nothing about, but assume to be deficient. No offense. Being mocking and judgmental isn't explicitly against the rules or anything, and I certainly don't claim to make diamond posts myself, but all the same, I really don't think you're in a position to be judging others for post quality.
But I was responding to your remark "at least you had enough non-idiot dickheads" on DDO. DDO had a much bigger population, so there were bound to be more users there who met with your approval. It's gonna take some time for DART to build up a bigger population.
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@Raltar
I'm interested. Though I'd rather have a quote system, signatures, or group PM's first, personally.I like the idea that Mike floated a while ago about people being able to form 'private threads' which were invite only, and in which the thread starter acts as a sort of thread mod.I actually have suggested several similar ideas, to at least make blocking trolls easier, and have not seen much traction. I don't know if the site owner is really considering features like this, but even if he is, such features don't seem like a top priority.
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@Wylted
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@Analgesic.Spectre
I've definitely had worthwhile conversations on DART. But you haven't really made any criticism of the quality of discussion that I feel couldn't be made of any public forum. I never keep my expectations that high on the internet. It's important to be realistic. You're not always gonna get the Algonquin Round Table.
A lot of the site's problems are probably due to it suffering from a pretty small community at present, because we haven't even started to advertise it yet. Mike says the site needs to spend a bit more time in the oven before it can handle larger crowds. I feel like some complaints about DART are down to impatience that it isn't becoming a polished finished product overnight. It's still pretty raw and it basically has only one guy working on it.
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@Raltar
...one of the most heated complaints from members is that mods are heavy-handed and oppressive tyrants...Again; I already pointed out that I don't buy this claim. Mods keep saying that people make this complaint, but I can't find anyone who actually IS making this complaint, other than a handful of obviously simplistic trolls from a few months back.The real complaint is a lack of consistency. Some rules are enforced, some aren't. Some users get punished, some don't. Some posts get deleted, some don't. Sometimes moderators say the CoC is the only set of rules, some times they make up stuff from outside the CoC. Some people seem to get smacked down for minor stuff, while others are able to run amok with obvious trolling as their only contribution to the site. Emphasis on the forums is wayyyyy too heavy, while debates seem entirely unmoderated, comment sections dissolve into borderline psychotic hissy-fits and votes get randomly deleted for subjective reasons. The whole site is a s--tshow of random and unpredictable enforcement in a sea of endless trolling.I laid out what I believe the objections we all agree upon are, and as of yet nobody has disputed any of those, nor has any convincing rebuttal from any moderator made an appearance.
The post of mine you partially quoted was noting that there are complaints that mods are too strict and complaints that mods are not as strict as they ought to be. The too-strict complaints are real enough.
That was just from a cursory sweep, forgive my laziness. I could probably do better if I took more time to plumb. Anyway, as for the rest of your complaints, give me some specifics and examples. I'm willing to listen if you're willing to explain something you've probably already explained before. I can't promise talking with me will satisfy you any more than talking to the other mods did, though.
But regarding emphasis on the forums: Your attitude about the forums has been dismissive in the past, iirc. I just have a basic disagreement with your desire to minimize the forums.
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@keithprosser
I thought DDO "scaled" okay. Though I was only on it for the last 2 years, when activity had dwindled -- or so I heard senior members saying.
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@keithprosser
What? Was this your opinion of DDO as well?but the site isn't really finished or officially "up"But how many active members can the internet forum/debate model actually handle? I'd say its actually very few. The structure works well for a dozen or so members, but it won't scale very well.
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@Fallaneze
It has the largest collection of DDO refugees that I've seen, but the site isn't really finished or officially "up", and until it is, I'll hold off on officially calling it DDO reincarnated.
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@Vader
So you're saying what, attacks which are made in defense should be regarded with more leniency?
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@Tejretics
For whatever it's worth, which I'm sure isn't much, I apologize for any part I played in derailing your thread, Tej.
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@Vader
drafterman is correct that it is a directed personal attack, but I agree with you and with bish that it's doing no harm such that it needs to be deleted.
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Yep, it was me who said "deleting posts is destroying evidence". I should rightly get all blame and CSI accusations.
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@Vader
Sure. Humans are social animals.To a mild degree, he has a point. When someone big wants a leniency in modding, the community slowly trends to favor the leaning or whatever side the popular is on
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@drafterman
It kinda seems like your complaint is that we listen to complaints. Help me out here, man. If I listen to that complaint will the paradox unmake the universe?
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@RationalMadman
I didn't get what you meant by "they are both".Want me to give case study examples or actually you don't get what I mean?
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@Vader
Well, it seems to be moderation that is blamed for people not being happy.No one will ever be happy with a bunch of hard headed people on one site
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It's interesting that one of the most heated complaints from members is that mods are heavy-handed and oppressive tyrants, but another of the most heated complaints is that mods are too democratic and not strict enough.
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@Vader
Sweet.
Every time I go there, there's not much activity. Was thinking of making a sort of Hangout Thread equivalent for discord, to notify peeps of when I'm headed there.
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Would be interested to see a thread called "Should posts that violate the CoC be deleted?"
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@Raltar
Maybe a feature could be added that just red flags a post to show it has been found to be in violation of the CoC.If you delete it, you destroy evidence.If you really care about that (and that isn't the argument bsh1 gave), then implement a moderator tool to "censor" posts which violate the rules. The general public would be restricted from seeing the inappropriate content, while moderators would still retain access to said content and could use it as "evidence" later if needed.
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@keithprosser
I can't enforce that, and I don't think I would even if I could.
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@drafterman
Do you think it's a good policy to destroy evidence that justifies moderator action?
When the mods delete posts it tends to inflame accusations of oppression and conspiracy.
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@keithprosser
"I'd say we humans have a tendency to hate 'outsiders', people who are 'not like us'. Bigots don't use their brains to overcome that primitive tribal instinct - they use their brains to rationalise and justify their hate." - keithprosser
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@RationalMadman
"If you actually want people to mix and genuinely be equal, there is actually a strong positivity to whites embracing black music and culture no matter how vulgar it is." - RationalMadman
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@ResurgetExFavilla
"If you say that someone is 'dehumanizing' a man by calling him a tranny or telling him to put on a pair of pants instead of a dress, then the word loses a bit of the raw power meant to describe specific, uniquely horrific acts like chattel slavery, large-scale extermination, crushing totalitarianism, or sadistic torture." - ResurgetExFavilla
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@ethang5
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I've been reading your posts and debates on the lookout for memorable quotes, generally one to three sentences long. I'll be collecting them here. They may be meaningful, humorous, make a good point, or paint a vivid self-portrait. Anything that jumps out at me, really.
My intent is to @ the people I quote. If you don't want to be @'ed in this way, or if you don't want me to quote you at all, tell me and I will stop immediately and permanently.
I may be quoting controversial members or members you don't like. Sometimes people you don't like say things worth quoting.
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@drafterman
Wait why does "reports have been handled" mean "mod approved"? Poly was temp banned for two days following that post.
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@rosends
The commentators have a few different approaches:1. They are those who were giants (Anakim) either in physical stature or in bravery/might2. They are those who caused others to fall (n-f-l is a root for falling) through their misdeeds3. They are those whose size and strength made others cower/fall4. They are those who, themselves, fell, because they were led by their lusts and were lesser than generations beforeThe Malbim is very clear, though, that the entire notion of "fallen from heaven" (as another commentator puts it "semidei") is wrong.
That strikes me as a list of very different meanings. How can we glean an accurate or precise understanding of these passages from such ambiguity?
But I'm aware that fallen angels are primarily a Christian notion, so supposing the nephilim to be fallen angels may indeed be looking at them through a Christian lens.
Wait, scratch that -- I'm wrong.
The idea of fallen angels derived from Jewish Enochic pseudepigraphy or the assumption that the "sons of God" (בני האלהים) mentioned in Genesis 6:1–4 are angels.[2] Some scholars consider it most likely that the Jewish tradition of fallen angels predates, even in written form, the composition of Gen 6:1–4.[3][4][a] In the period immediately preceding the composition of the New Testament, some sects of Judaism, as well as many Christian Church Fathers, identified the "sons of God" (בני האלהים) of Genesis 6:1–4 as fallen angels.[6]
Feels like it always goes back to the Book of Enoch, doesn't it.
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@Tradesecret
I did think allowing angels and humans to boogie was suspiciously cool of God.I take the view it refers to the kings and important people of the time.It cannot refer to angels - as this would violate the creation ordinance of kind after kind. angels and humans cannot produce infants.Hence, it must refer to something else.The kings of the world - at the time - were giants among men. They existed before Noah and after Noah.
So what's your take on the translation of nefilim as "the fallen ones" or "those who make others fall"? This is probably a great example of why an intimate understanding of the original Hebrew is so important -- an understanding most of us in the modern world lack.
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