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The instance I responded to ADOL about was Bsh1 leaving the website, not being banned, in regards to accusations of bsh1 saying something in the Utopia Crumbles thread. . . . The thing I mentioned is why bsh1 left.You began this discussion. You claimed I said something. I said no such thing. Thereafter, I corrected you as to both what I have and have not said before, both in general and in the specific case you referenced. The specific case you referenced was behavior in keeping with prior behavior of his in other contexts, on which I have previously spoken and which formed the perspective of what I said right after bsh1 left DART.
I didn't claim you said any specific thing, I explained that what you and annie's stance on bsh was. Are you denying the stance you took? You then randomly keep bringing up some hidden context that no one else is privy to in a horrible attempt to substantiate the claim.
Cancel culture? Seriously?
Yes, seriously. You want to silence a view point you disagree with, without even attempting to debate it. That's what cancel culture does, it silences a view point it finds too controversial without hearing the argument.
This argument doesn't even rise to the level of frivolity. DART is a tiny website, with a marginally active user base. The site's user base isn't even large enough that you could reasonably argue that it functions like a public square, as perhaps you might with Reddit (e.g., /r/thedonald), Twitter (e.g., Trump's twitter account), Facebook (e.g., Trump's Facebook account) or Amazon Web Hosting (e.g., Parler). The internet at large, not to mention the world itself outside of the electronic, remains available for users such as the individual currently identifying himself as "adreamofliberty" to have any discussion they like. By your logic, if anyone objects to anything in any specific case or context, they're engaging in "cancel culture." Which, I will note, is not what "cancel culture" is.
I do not understand why the size of a website has anything to do with the cancellation of an idea. Does your view on ADOL's beliefs not spread beyond this site?
Cancel culture, it turns out, refers when someone is subject to ostracism, in which they're thrown out of some social group (whether online, on social media or in person) because they have ran afoul of what is acceptable according to the woke, in some banal or trivial way.
Hmmm suspiciously sounds like the behavior you have towards ADOL.
And you missed my point about Nazis in a bar. The point had nothing to do with the quality of being a Nazi or your feelings about them being present or experience with how you argue. The point was about compartmentalization and its benefits; keeping some things out of some contexts, sometimes. Not excluding them from everywhere, always.
What are the benefits of restricting free speech on a debate site? So far I keep hearing these supposed slippery slope fallacies about certain members leaving or not participating, but rarely see that in action. I don't know how convinced I would be that banning "offensive" ideas because a member or two left is a rock solid is a rock solid idea anyway.
The all-or-none argumentative strategy you took is a nonsensical strawman. We are only talking about DART, not the internet or the world at large.
Why should we treat DART differently since it presents itself as a debate site?
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- With respect to bsh1, I have stated precisely what he did in #312, above. You appear to be confusing one instance of potential misconduct with other circumstances, the details of which I decline to relitigate more than I already have. If you don't remember the events I described, that's for the best. Your opinions with respect to why I might be biased are unavailing and do not require my response.
Your post 312 states absolutely nothing. I am not confusing any instance. The instance I responded to ADOL about was Bsh1 leaving the website, not being banned, in regards to accusations of bsh1 saying something in the Utopia Crumbles thread. If you are referring to another instance, then you are the one who brought it up unnecessarily. If bsh1 did something that people are unaware of yet you refuse to provide evidence of such an accusation, kind of hard for me to damn him for it. For all the "you brought this up" crap, it seems to actually be you who is un-necessarily bringing things up lol. As far as you commenting on not responding to my comments of you being bias towards bsh1, agreed, you are not required to respond. You weren't required to respond to any of this but you chose to do so anyway. You can opt out of this at any time.
- Your opinions related to the individual who posted on a prior site known as "adreamofliberty" are not persuasive and I see no reason why they require a response. You have not addressed the specific point I made and until you do, I will not engage on that issue. Even if you did, I might still not respond because doing so is futile and a complete waste of my time.
I can't respond to a point you in fact didn't make. Your argument is that by allowing ADOL on the site, we invite more people like ADOL. In other words, you are suggesting we cancel ideas instead of debating them. I don't care if more people like ADOL join up, to be frank. If they can defend themselves in debate, that's what I care about. You use nazi's as an example, but I do not think Nazi's can accurately defend their belief, but if one wishes to, they should be granted the ability to have their ideas shown to be horrible with logic and reasoning. I countered with a more realistic point about how anti-abortionists consider abortion the literal murder of a child. This is a better example than your nazi one, because there are many more people who share this mindset. You electing not to respond proves the point that you don't actually have an argument here. You are essentially part of cancel culture.
- As to your opinions about my intent in advising you to consider, among other things, the wisdom of dragging up ancient history, I invite you to refrain from such speculation. You have done nothing to correct any "narrative," but have stated numerous mischaracterizations of fact based on events to which you either (a) were never privy, or (b) even if you were privy to some, remained ignorant of the broader context. You know or should reasonably expect that I and Annie knew more about situations relating to bsh1, for reasons you have previously acknowledged. It is preposterous for you to think you are better informed than I am on any such matter, and even more so with respect to what I did or did not say related to that individual.
This whole "I know something you don't know" thing isn't an actual argument. It accomplishes nothing. You are bringing up something completely irrelevant. The thing I mentioned is why bsh1 left. Bsh1 left surrounding the controversy of Utopia crumbles according to my knowledge and everyone else who was present. If you think there was a reason more than that, but aren't willing to share what it is, then it is extremely redundant for you to even mention it and it accomplishes nothing.
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@ADreamOfLiberty
But I don't like the idea of being silenced for an opinion, so I want to get to the core of why I think people are truly offended by this opinion.It would be nice to know, for homosexuality as well.
This implies they are the same; They are not. Animals cannot consent unless they have specifically instigated the exchange.
Ultimately, on trauma, I feel like without being a pet psychologist, it would be hard for either of us to really determine what causes "traumatizes" an animal and how to accurately tell.Heh, I don't even trust human psychologists. It is a pseudoscience. If someone won't engage in scientific thought they shouldn't participate questions of scientific authority because the former renders them utterly incapable of evaluating the later.
So in even a best case scenario this means we are just trusting the judgement of the sexual instigator of the animal and hoping they aren't being traumatized because they perceive them not to be. Probably another big reason the idea is so opposed.
to use them for a practice in which you get pleasure and they may not necessarily like it in every situation feels utterly wrong to me.Technically that sentence describes human sex too. Some things feel better for one partner than the other. Words like "use" here are for emotional impact. We "use" our spouses but we don't use that word. The only reason someone would use "use" is to imply disregard and less than mutual utility.
No, no, no. I am using the words "use" here in the case of the non consenting pet, not the pet that chooses to hump your leg. It would be just as wrong to have sex with your partner if they did not want to according to both our understanding of rape.
The fact that they often can lack the ability to understand why what is happening to them is the ultimate barrier for me, and I am assuming the vast majority of people who take this view.But when pressed for details that notion means nothing. I need only ask you what is happening to them? Do you know? Which part can't they understand? Is it part they must understand for some reason?
Use these same questions for a child, and see if the impact of your question changes. Children do not always understand rape and sexual assault either, but often receive great mental trauma from it, and are effected greatly later on. I am not a pet psychologist obviously, and can't say that Dog's don't act the same way or not. Just that it seems wrong to do it to them for this reason. A person with full capability to understand and act against something that has minimal understanding; It's just taking advantage. Whether or not you want to think your harming the animal or not, or justify the action not harming the animal, the plain and simple fact is if you go an masterbate into a sock or other inaminate object your 100% less likely to harm something innocent, so why keep rationalizing something immoral just to satisfy an urge? Or just find one of millions of consenting adults to help satisfy you if the sock doesn't do it.
Even if they are "okay" with it, it feels like such an arbitrary way to determine that they are okay with it by just assuming the sounds they make are consensual.Sounds, body language, and actions. It is no more of an assumption than the method by which you determined that a dog doesn't like a groomer doing something or how you determined that a cat on tiktok is asking someone to stop.
These can be mis-interpreted in place of sexual pleasure though. Like I pointed out in the "last duel" example. If someone is horny enough, drunk enough, high enough, or even just one of those enough, it can be easy to mis-construe pain for pleasure if it helps your rationalize it until you can release. My point about the cat on tiktok though, was mostly to point out that what is considered abuse by me, isn't considered abuse society to the point where action will always be taken. It was to emphasize a difference between what is legally allowed and what should be allowed. I can't make an argument that people who engage in this behavior should be locked up, because there are far worse societal things that get passes. That's all that argument is.
Anyways I don't usually like to cut conversations short but I am admittedly losing interest in the discussion. Ultimately I think this is an agree to dis-agree thing, and so much of it is based on subjective morality, and personal belief and ideal that I can't really pack a punch with any of my arguments other than to try show that your own moral philosophy and values seem to contradict themselves to me.To me it seems like you haven't even come close to showing a contradiction. I said I value mutual pleasure and liberty and you said basically said "but what if discomfort and fearful silence".You haven't shown a contradiction until you can establish discomfort and fearful silence as a rule or unavoidable peril. It's all been "maybe", but my answer is a firm "not maybe, look at the facts you already take for granted".
Ultimately I doubt you will ever see contradiction in your conclusion. That is okay. I didn't come into this hoping to change your mind, as I said earlier. The contradiction I see is in that you established values that you believe pets deserve. You admit that the grounds for how pets should be treated are shaky at the same time. I therefor view the "justifications" you give for bestiality as mostly justifications, rationalizations, etc. I feel like the actions described fit your own description of rape.
I don't know. In my moral framework there is a recognition of an abstract alternative to might-makes-right. Certainly at some point in advancing rational faculty a non-human must be included. I thus proceed on fuzzy logic.This statement is enough for me to be okay with ending the conversation on really. It's not exactly a concession, but to me shows that there is at least some arbitrary justification being used to explain the deviancy.I am not following you on that, that statement was about what I could prove to be universal and what I couldn't. It has nothing to do with explaining deviancy.
But proceeding on fuzzy grounds is enough proof for me to see that this isn't exactly as ethically secure as you try to make it seem to be. That is enough for me, because as I have pointed out it seems to me you have contradicted your own definition of rape by justifying how an animal doesn't need to understand. You think it is possible to rape an animal, but you do not think them not understanding constitutes rape. It seems in your mind, as long as the animal isn't wildly protesting or throwing a fit, it is more or less consent. I have states that this argument doesn't even hold up for humans, so I don't see why that would be a justification for animals.
If your mind isn't changed that's fine, but this all appears as rationalization to me.
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The example was to disprove the proposition that they won't object out of fear.From a utilitarian angle this talk about what I gain or don't gain is totally irrelevant. The earnestness of the objection is the best measure of the degree of trauma. You may say a bath is necessary, but if the bath is more traumatic than sex then either sex is not very traumatic at all or baths are so traumatic that as one user suggested someone needs to get shot.The bath is not necessary, dogs indoors are not necessary, pets are not necessary. People would not have pets unless they got something out of it, and they're willing to put those animals through discomfort (baths, vets) to keep them inside. You could say they would be worse off if they weren't in a human home, but then that can always be said.It also goes without saying that some animals will consent to a bath.
I don't want a debate on a utilitarian angle though; I think I was clear from the get-go that I understand and agree that from a utilitarian perspective, having an animal who has to participate in sexual act could probably be a lesser harm then what other animals like chickens, cows, and pigs have to go through on a farm. On the same note, I also agree that the dog having to deal with this, but also having a warm house, food, and shelter is better than the alternative of them being on the street. My primary goal here is to represent the people who are "disgusted" and "repulsed" but do not elect to debate why they feel that way. I probably won't change your mind on this subject, nor you mine; I realize that, and that is okay. But I don't like the idea of being silenced for an opinion, so I want to get to the core of why I think people are truly offended by this opinion. Ultimately, on trauma, I feel like without being a pet psychologist, it would be hard for either of us to really determine what causes "traumatizes" an animal and how to accurately tell. Vocal and physical resistance to a bath could be just as traumatic as silent submission to sex for all I know. At the end of the day there is a difference in the level of understanding between the human instigator and the pet.
As far as the "pet's not being neccesary" bit, yeah I agree. You don't need a dog or a cat. Most people get them for companionship, and yes there is some other reasons people may get a pet, be that hunting, protection, service, etc. But this part will come to personal values, and based on the fact that you are presenting yourself as believing these values should also apply to pets, I think we would agree that even animals who provide some purpose for us, deserve the values you describe yourself as having. In my own value, I think it is a pet owners responsibility to love and care for their animals, and treat them as if they would their own family, as they took up the responsibility to adopt them. Sure the law doesn't legally recognize that, but animals at their core to me, are just innocent. Maybe more advanced and intelligent species can engage in toxic "human" behaviors if you will, gang mentality in chimps, etc etc. But simpler species like dogs that lack understanding, to use them for a practice in which you get pleasure and they may not necessarily like it in every situation feels utterly wrong to me. The fact that they often can lack the ability to understand why what is happening to them is the ultimate barrier for me, and I am assuming the vast majority of people who take this view. Even if they are "okay" with it, it feels like such an arbitrary way to determine that they are okay with it by just assuming the sounds they make are consensual.
Anyways I don't usually like to cut conversations short but I am admittedly losing interest in the discussion. Ultimately I think this is an agree to dis-agree thing, and so much of it is based on subjective morality, and personal belief and ideal that I can't really pack a punch with any of my arguments other than to try show that your own moral philosophy and values seem to contradict themselves to me.
"I don't know. In my moral framework there is a recognition of an abstract alternative to might-makes-right. Certainly at some point in advancing rational faculty a non-human must be included. I thus proceed on fuzzy logic."
This statement is enough for me to be okay with ending the conversation on really. It's not exactly a concession, but to me shows that there is at least some arbitrary justification being used to explain the deviancy. But yeah due to time constraints, and honestly losing a lack of interest in the subject I may not be responding to everything as I initially planned.
Ultimately I just wanted to give you at least a little bit of a debate (what you came here for) instead of just bandwagoning the inevitable rioters who will boo you off the site without challenging your opinion, which I think is a horrible precedent to set for a debate site.
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Consider the full implications of your example. If the individual is willing to object strenuously to a bath to the point of holding onto door frames (google it), where is their fear of physical harm? Where is their despairing acceptance?If it only comes out for bath time, but not sex time; one can only reasonably conclude that sex is a lesser imposition than a bath in their mind (if it is an imposition at all).
But this response feels like it's essentially admitting that lack of complete consent is okay as long as its a lesser imposition than a bath. Lack of consent for a bath is one thing; If your dog played in the mud, you don't want it tracking that around your house. The dog doesn't understand the implications of tracking mud through. You gain nothing from the exchange of a bath other than a normalcy; Your dog lives there and therefore gets to be cleaned. Other than that you are not gaining anything really from putting your animal through the misery of a bath, and the bath is necessary. Sex is not necessary for the dog, and it benefits you. In the case where the dog doesn't like it that much but is simply "putting up with it", this seems to meet your definition of rape, and violate your own moral standard of what should be allowed to be done to the dog.
If you never punish a dog ever for any expression or decision they make with regards to sex, they will not transplant the same concern they have about peeing the carpet over to sex. They will learn (quickly) that "no" is an option. They will only use the bare minimum of communication that is required, escalating only if necessary.
A few considerations here, but in regard to breed of the dog I feel like this can be a slippery slope, especially with breeds that are more submissive, breeds that are more loyal, breeds that rarely show aggression, etc etc. A really loyal loving dog might be more okay with whatever is being done to them because they love their humans and want to make them happy even at their own dis-advantage. You see this type of behavior in dogs who get groomed all the time, where groomers are constantly invading space they may not like being invaded. Just as with above you can make an argument that grooming can be neccesary. But I have to ask is putting an animal through discomfort they tolerate because they love not abuse?
There is a TikToker I always see in my feed that I feel the exact same way about. Her handle is "Don'tStopMeowing", and she has a very sweet cat that can be pretty talkative when irritated. She constantly puts the animal in uncomfortable situations, invades it's space, and generally annoys it just so she can make amusing tiktok videos for her subscribers. I find this behavior extremely obnoxious and unnecessary, and think it will probably generate problematic behaviors between her and her cat's at some point. I also consider this abuse, but I doubt animal control will be barging in and taking her pets away anytime soon because of this since it's not like she's actually hurting the cat, just being extremely invasive for no reason.
How I feel this example is relevant is because annoying your animal for sex feels completely necessary, and breeds like dogs who are more submissive, and willing to satisfy their humans may take and tolerate this abuse much more than neccesary. So it becomes a question of "should" you do this thing, not "how much is this thing damaging my pet". And to be clear I am really having to give your argument more credit than it's probably actually do here, because I actually have 0 understanding of how this plays out in real life. For all I know you could be lying to me about how much the animal enjoys this, or their enjoyment can be completely up to your interpretation when in reality the whole experience could be terrible and horrifying for them. So realize I am giving you a huge grain of salt here so we can discuss the "should" element here, which is the key part of the argument to me at least. I don't care to dig through data that supports my data. In fact honestly I am trying to draw as many comparisons to humans here as possible, because that is a more tangible reality I can understand, but in a lot of ways I don't see a difference between a human child and a dog.
Consider a cat who does not like how it is being pet. A cat who is used to humans who pay careful attention to their body language and vocalizations will tail flick, then moan (like a meow of a certain pitch), then try to get away, then scratch and bite. That is escalating levels of communication, they go through them sequentially because the less violent and obvious signals have worked before. A cat who is constantly assaulted by petting from people who don't pay attention at all will quickly resort to scratching and biting first thing. They have learned that it is the only thing a human understands.
As an owner of three cats, I can relate to warning signals of cats pretty well. While bestiality/zoophilia may apply to multiple species, it's easier for me to wrap my head around you doing this with a species that has learned behaviors of submissivity, like horses and dogs however. Which is why it's also important that I mention different breeds. I feel like a rottweiler is more likely to snap at you for crossing a line than a golden retriever might for example, even if both animals felt the exact same way about it. You might interpret the lack of growling and submissivity (im making that word up, I don't care, you know what I mean) as a sign that this is okay where as with the rottweiler it would be more obvious if it wasn't.
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I didn't say I have sex with non-humans, let us say hypothetically that I have in some jurisdiction where it would be legal to do so. I could in that case know that I had the animal's consent by applying an inductive argument to their behavior (including vocalizations) in the context of my knowledge of their personality and history. That description technically describes the assessment of consent from humans as well, it is never known with 100% certainty; one simply must eliminate the absurd in order to live.
I mean this argument generally doesn't hold up for humans either though.
"S/He seemed into it to me" Is not always substantiative agreement for sexual engagement. Consider many variables:
1. A human may have said no, but because the sexual aggressor's own perceptive decided that the victim was into it, they may look past such a dis-agreement. The "No means no" thing is even harder for a household pet because they literally don't have the ability to say no. In the case of a dog, they may have expressed dis-interest at one point and then become amenable to it knowing that you are the one in control and ultimately decide things for them, just as you might with giving a dog a bath or feeding them. They are used to being submissive to you and having to learn to like it. In this sense it's almost impossible for a Dog to "consent". It's more proportionate to "Okay this is happening whether I like it or not, so I might as well try and enjoy it", which is probably the case with humans who have said no as well in many situations they feel powerless in. They also don't know what your capable of upon rejection, threat of physical harm might make both an animal or a human more amenable to "just going along with it".
2. The type of consent you are implying you think is obvious from this animal can be distorted by the horniness factor of the aggressor. Let's face it, when you are in the mood, you don't always think clearly. Add alcohol or drugs into the mix, and your judgement further goes out the window. It's simple biology, but when some people have that urge, they may be willing to pursue that urge. If you haven't seen the movie "The last duel" (you should it's really good), the entire theme of this movie hinges on this principle of perceived consent. The aggressor(Jacques De LeGris) is shown to have a sexual background where playfulness and escape attempt are a normal part of sexual activity and fun. When he engages in this with the victim Marguerite, they show from his perspective a distorted view of her enjoyment. The movie then shows the same scene from her perspective, where their is no playfulness whatsoever, and the fear and horror is real. The aggressor of sexual assault can't always identify the difference however. This problem can be amplified when you factor in that an animal can't physically speak. Those "barks" or "groans" you think are enjoyment could just as easily be protest or discomfort. Its ultimately entirely in your jurisdiction to decide that.
And ultimately the argument of "we do worse things to animals for food" isn't a good enough argument to make up for the fact that you believe rape is bad, but agree with practicing it against animals is okay. If you have the power to control your behavior that directly prevents rape it becomes a question of whether you should act on that practice or not.
Understanding exactly what I am doing to them (or in my case what they are doing to me) is a different matter entirely. We both know that bit is going in that hole. We both know that the other endorses this procedure. The animal may understand fluid is being transferred. The animal definitely doesn't understand that the fluid contains tiny machines called cells. There is no doubt something I don't understand about it as well, I can't tell you what that is but if I had lived 200 years ago I would not know about the cells.
Let's also not forget the potential to extract harmful diseases or transfer these diseases to the animal. I am sure the animal would not understand that as well.
If Cathy Newman was doing it honestly there wouldn't be a problem.
Agreed.
I believe not all bestiality is rape, but some bestiality is rape. It is rape when it is not consensual. I find that unacceptable, however regardless of whether I found it acceptable or not it would be rape given the definition of rape I gave.A legal definition of rape might not hold non-consenting bestiality to be rape because animals aren't persons under the law. That is why I am very careful about definitions, words serve a purpose and when a word has moral connotations like "rape" its definition must be carefully tailored to reflect the morally relevant concept, in this case consent regardless of some legal notion of personhood.
I accept your version and definition of this. As a baseline however, your own definition I feel like helps substantiate my point.
Just because worse things are "legally" allowed to be done to animals, I feel like that isn't a good argument for partaking in something especially if you feel it is wrong.That is essentially correct and I am total agreement. Even a perfect liberal set of laws allows plenty of room for vice. However in this case this isn't something "worse" it's something considerably better than average.
I am confused. By better than the average, are you insinuating that this is doing the animals in question a favor or am I misunderstanding?
I agree that it is unlikely that beef or pork eating will end anytime soon. It is far more likely that that meat will become lab-grown before people give it up. I would caution against believing everything vegan activists say. I have been to many local farms and there is very little in the way of torture (especially for dairy). I know there are mega-corp farms where the vegans get their shock-footage but I would be wary of their statistical math.
The point was more used as an example, but yes in general I take shock documentaries that clearly have an agenda with a grain of salt. There are many farms who practice humane treatment, and yes I am only referring to mega corporations.
If you do believe there is an intractable moral problem in the production of a product then I would agree with the vegans that you are part of the problem if you consume it. In your case however the problem could equally be said to be a lack of transparency in allowing you to choose to buy "humane" beef.
I mean if one person refuses to buy a product where millions continue to do so, who would I really be proving a point to buy buying a more expensive product than a cheaper one? I can just pretend to feel good about myself while being out a few extra dollars. At that point I might as well sniff my own farts to help save the environment: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZTpgqqLyAs8&ab_channel=WesCarlson
It's not mostly legal in most places in the west. The legality has no bearing on the actual reality of harm or non-harm. I know there is no harm by observation and inference in the context of all my knowledge. That's the only way to know anything.
You are right, I googled it the other day and thought it said there was only a few states that had it illegal, but it appears I misread that search and there is in fact only a few states in which it is legal.
My values are liberty, knowledge/truth/reason, life, prosperity, beauty, and pleasure more or less in that order.I don't always pursue my values to the best of my ability, if I did that would mean I was perfectly virtuous and nobody is perfect.
I imagine your value of "pleasure" isn't strong enough to supersede another's value of liberty, life and prosperity correct? Do you believe animals are entitled the same values as humans are also?
If I were to make a list of disappointing or frustrating elements where the correct course of action isn't obvious bestiality would not make the top 50. Why? It's actually very simple and straightforward concept. Above polytheist was talking about BSDM and safewords. That's a human making things as complicated as possible. A dog doesn't make things complicated they make things simple. They want food, they want to explore, they want to play, and they want what feels good to them.
My issue is "what feels good to them" I feel like can be arbitrary decided for them. Many sexual practices are mutual. I am not talking about just "being okay with a dog humping your leg" either, because earlier you mentioned that the dog understands what bit goes in what hole, implying that you are more than okay with it going further than that.
Yeah petting a dogs belly, or scratching them behind the ear might feel good to them, but when it comes to the other stuff there is a lot left to interpretation about whether the dog or animal enjoys everything. For example the dog might enjoy it for a few seconds, but the second they stop enjoying it or not want to engage anymore the human has to be okay with that as well for it not to be rape. As mentioned earlier, it would be easy to make an excuse that the dog is still enjoying it for your own sake of wanting to finish, and it's not exactly like the dog can protest. And if they do you can arbitrarily decide that its a sound of pleasure. See what I mean? In this way wanting an animal to feel good isn't just for their benefit, it's for your own as well. Animals lack of understanding and unconditional innocence is love is why most humans refer to their pets as "their babies", or their "best friends". There is a huge measure of responsibility in owning a pet because they lack the ability to effeciently take care of themselves. We provide them shelter, food and love, and they give us love back. Some times that love is expressed through protection against intruders, which you could spin as a secondary purpose, but really its just them loving us back. When the innocence of the animal is now being used towards sexual gratification, it seems like the goal of owning a pet is less about caring and loving for them, and more about "what can I get out of this" when really all they should owe you is their love.
I am not trying to sound preachy, just pointing out that animals aren't adopted for the primary measure of "What can I get out of this" but rather they should be treated and cared for as if they were your own child and they have less mental capacity and ability to understand. Just like it doesn't make sense to engage in this activity with a child, it doesn't make sense to engage in it with a pet.
It's not rocket science and there is not that much room for error. Communicating future intention is hard. Communicating current opinion [good or bad] is very easy. Anyone who has interacted with domestic animals can attest to this.
In regards to scratching a pet behind the ear in a spot they like, sure... in regards to the other stuff... I imagine the community of people who engage in that are a small one that are easily able to justify and rationalize the behavior.
There is no tradeoff, there is no "greater good" or "lesser evil" it's just good. There is no contradiction on the horizon so if you thinking of one you're going to have to say it.
We will see as the conversation continues where this is applicable, my point in bringing it up is because earlier your rather "wordy" explanations seemed to lack a punch in actual point. Which is why I was making it a point to have you use your own words to define your moral stance on rape. Now that you have I feel we can get past X=Z there for Y bullcrap that I often feel skips the point, misses context, or is manipulative and dismissive of the primary point.
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- "bsh1." You have represented that I accused the individual known as "bsh1" as a "pedo." I have not accused the individual known as "bsh1" of being a "pedo," and to the extent you have claimed otherwise, that is incorrect. Bsh1 directed sexually suggestive communications, language and comments to an individual that bsh1 knew, at the time he made them, to be under the age of 18 and at most 14 years old. Bsh1 made those communications in the context of a "rap battle," which is a matter of record. I and others, including esocialbookworm ("annie") objected to this, among other things. Annie and I stated our objections in several contexts. A consensus among active members began to form, relating to the inappropriate nature of bsh1's communications. Bsh1 thereafter unilaterally decided to leave DDO. Further, I do not see what, if any, relevance that set of facts and circumstances has to any matter raised in this thread. As a general practice, it is best to let what is in the past remain there.
If you weren't suggesting him of pedophilia activity what wrongdoing exactly were you accusing him? I can't find the thread because it looks like the mods here deleted the Utopia Crumbles thread and any other thread related to the drama which is absurd, but yeah. I doubt you remember the situation that clearly however, the comments weren't made in a rap battle, they were made in supadudz fan fiction thread. Even if you were able to semantically argue your way out of not directly accusing him of being a pedophile, you were happy to board the bsh1 hate train, which is in line exactly with what I said, that if bsh1's name ever comes up in any context, you will have something negative to say or contribute to the conversation and it should be taken with a huge grain of salt. Also I wasn't the one who randomly brought this up btw, I was pointing out to ADOL that bsh1 wasn't banned, that he in fact quit. We can leave the past in the past if you want, but I suspect we both know how this is going to go, because you are always gonna have a response and so am I so *cracks knuckles* lets go for round 2.
2. "adreamofliberty." You have made certain representations about prior activity on another site relating to the individual known as "adreamofliberty," who may be currently active on this website under the same username. On DDO, as you will recall, I objected to that individual's use of DDO as a forum to advocate for sexually assaulting non-human animals, in response to gratuitous and repeated activities and communications posted by the individual known as "adreamofliberty" advocating for sexually assaulting non-human animals. My argument there was simple: DDO is not the place to advocate for sexually assaulting non-human animals. Various users, including yourself, disagreed and thought that advocating for sexually assaulting non-human animals should be allowed. Those views were unfortunate. Here, my position on that issue is similar: DebateArt should not be a forum to advocate for sexually assaulting non-human animals.
This is a debate platform, and if you advocate to restrict the beliefs that offend you, no progress can ever be made. If you think someone's belief is wrong, you should not be afraid to dispute that with logic and reasoning. Doing so only furthers that individuals point and if anything, gives it more credence and vindicates them.
You're free to think otherwise, but there is no world where my position on that issue changes. There are plenty of places on the internet for deviants of all types to congregate; no compelling reasons exist to support the proposition that this should be one of them. An appropriate analogy is to a Nazi in a bar. Nazi walks into a bar. The bar owner throws out the Nazi, even though the particular Nazi hasn't done anything especially egregious. Other patrons ask why. Bar owner says that if you let one Nazi in, others will follow and before you know it, he's running a Nazi bar. Bar owner doesn't want to run a Nazi bar. Simple as that. There are plenty of other places online where those discussions can take place, like 4chan or other shitholes of the internet. No one, including me, is arguing for "censorship," as such. Arguments which begin from the proposition that all censorship is wrong miss the point, accordingly.
Imagine using this same argument with abortion. There are many people, (huge groups, probably bigger than the bestiality groups) who believe abortion is MURDER of a child. Imagine if they took the same stance as you and believed that people who thought otherwise shouldn't have a voice and should have their ability to protest that belief removed. You would think that is absolutely ludicrous. If you claim to support free speech you cannot just arbitrarily decide what views should and shouldn't be allowed to be expressed.
You may disagree, but my position on that issue isn't going to change.
And similarly my views on free speech aren't likely to change. I haven't heard a good enough argument from you or anyone that has yet to convince me that opinions that offend one person shouldn't be allowed to be debated.
Other comments. As a general practice moving forward, it would be better to abstain from reopening what, frankly, is ancient history. What's in the past is in the past. I and others, including individuals who may not be active on this site, have perspectives on them. Prudent consideration should be given to what happens next, once all those old skeletons are dug up out of the ground. Is anyone better off? Will anyone's position on those issues change? Are the foreseeable costs of re-opening those discussions worth it? Just something to think about, before continuing those discussions, particularly to the extent doing so is likely to involve characterizing disputed facts in objectionable ways.
This sound a bit like a manipulative intimidation tactic. You chose to respond to this post, meaning you were willing to re-engage in this conversation. You felt the need to respond, but are now trying to threaten me in responding it sounds like. I am more than happy to let old pasts and beefs die, and have. I even said earlier in this thread that despite the fact that we don't always see eye to eye on every issue all the time, that I consider you a friend. If you want the conversation to continue I will respond, I always respond. But really as you stated previously, nothing will likely come of this exchange since we are both adamant in our views. Your second point will literally go no where, and your first point was kind of on shaky grounds to begin with. I wasn't calling you out randomly, I was simply correcting the narrative that a member was banned when that member had left of his own accord. You chose to get defensive over that for some reason.
Anyways, you tell me. You want this to die or you wanna keep going? I'm fine either way.
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The fruitless semantic discussions are what occurs when you don't precisely define what you're talking about.
My understanding is that semantics are largely about deciphering meaning though as opposed to picking a part a definition so it suits the narrative of your argument.
I really don't know what an amoral meaning of "support" would be in this context.I believe in an objective universal morality that (if pushed) could be condensed to single words like "liberty" or "consent" (they are avatars of the same concept). So I don't support non-consent, ever. The only time I ever encourage ignoring someone's consent is to prevent them from ignoring consent themselves. i.e. punishment/justice.
Good to know. So you think you can substantiate that the animals you have sex with consent and understand exactly what you are doing to them when you have sex with them?
It's definitely not the same thing, it has different definition. There are three possibilities (from the classic venn diagram):All rape is bestialityAll bestiality is rape <- the real contentionSome rape is bestiality, some bestiality is rape <- I agreeThey would only be the same thing if all rape is bestiality and all bestiality is rape (at the same time).
I don't want to pull a Cathy Newman and do the whole "so your saying" thing, but am I misunderstanding you by assuming you are breaking this down argumentatively by saying not all bestiality is rape because, but in cases where you feel an animal has not consented, you feel it is not okay?
If that understanding is incorrect I may ask you to dumb that down for me. I hate arguments in the style of "If x means this than y means that" for exactly this reason lol.
You didn't actually ask for a definition of rape, I can't tell you my stance on [undefined].Rape is sexual intercourse where at least one being possessing a discernible autonomous will at some point in its existence does not provide implied or express consent.
I didn't ask for the definition of rape because I don't want to me manipulated into a semantics debate. I simply want to determine if your ideas of rape are consistent with humans as they are with animals, and if not understand why one is different to you than the other. Just because worse things are "legally" allowed to be done to animals, I feel like that isn't a good argument for partaking in something especially if you feel it is wrong. But in my own words with eating a cheeseburger that was the result of an animal being tortured in a factory, I can justify that by being so far removed from the torture itself that I can enjoy the product. A vegan could argue I am part of the problem because corporations will continue torturing animals as long as I purchase the product and continuously provide them the money to do so, they will continue to murder animals in the fastest most profitable way regardless of the harm done to the animals. I feel that even if I rioted and advocated with the vegans, there would never be enough support to make people care, especially over populated countries, or starving countries. There simply will always be a market for this, and whether I do or do not stop eating cheeseburgers, nothing will change or come of it, so why not eat the burger while admitting I think they way they are produced is horrible and wish it was changed? The act of eating a cheeseburger isn't wrong to me if the killing of the animal is done humanely, but considering I have no control over that process, I think it's okay to do it.
In the case of bestiality though, that is something we have control over, and just because it's mostly legal, doesn't mean your participation doesn't directly harm the animal.
This whole debate is a matter of ideas and philosophy at its core, and I want to understand from you without playing the argumentative games that miss the point. I want to understand what your morals are telling you and how you aren't contradicting them.
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If you think "rape" is as subjective as morality there is nothing more to say. If you believe you can define it and its predicated concepts objectively and consistently with the common understanding, I would show you that bestiality is not necessarily rape.
What is your stance on rape first of all? If you are willing to make arguments that bestiality is not the same thing I assume you do not support it correct? Correct me if I am wrong.
I do not want to engage in a semantics conversation with you, more an debate of ideas. Before we start this discussion could you explain in your own words what your stance on rape is and why it is or isn't "wrong".
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- Having pure freedom of speech on a website that's on the brink of death, driving sensible members away and leaving only... lunatics and madmen behind.
You are attaching the conclusion that freedom of speech won't bring more members, and aren't able to substantiate anyone actually leaving because of certain members. Badgers threat to leave is empty until he carries it out in my mind. Even if he does leave that doesn't substantiate the site will riot and leave because of one members opinions they find to be offensive.
2. Reining in the wildest and most offensive and repulsive debates, especially if they'll show on the 'hot topics' list for an extended period of time, so as to avoid potential onlookers to the website going W T F and never visiting it again (bestiality being defended is one of those ones).
I am not advocating that these are the only debates that should be advertised either. In fact I have been pretty clear that mostly what we w ant to advertise are current hot button issues. Things like whats going in Ukraine, the Covid crap, racial issues in America, etc etc. Suggesting we don't ban certain ideas doesn't mean I favor those ideas over others.
I am asking you which is the lesser evil and how clear it is to you what needs to be done to keep this site popular and presentable to Twitter, as Airmax wants it to be.
Finding a topic personally deplorable doesn't mean it should be banned. Again, see my argument about abortion being considered as MURDER by people. We don't chase anti abortionists off the site either.
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I will continue to hold that animals cannot consent. I don't feel because of that they should get to be raped by human beings. They also in general do not breed for pleasure you have to be in heat in order to attract a male species. Humans have sex at will so I do not believe that animals and people were meant to engage in sexual acts at all together. And I think that anyone that finds an animal attractive has something seriously wrong with them they are on the same level as a pedophile. There is an inherent element of dominance and the degradation of the victim on the receiving end that makes it unattractive as possible. Even in the BDSM community there is a level of consent and a level of restraint.
I ultimately agree here, but the one thing I would discern differently is that humans are animals too. The reason you have to apply a difference here is the human intelligence and capability of understanding. At our most basic and primal instinct, sex is for breeding for us as well. We have just evolved enough as a species where we engage in it for pleasure too, where many animals don't.
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I am not going to morally defend dog fvcking, like I am not going to morally defend the torture of animals in factories before we eat them. Hunting for survival is one thing but mass torture of our food is probably worse than someone screwing an animal. I don't like either of them, but I'd rather just acknowledge that morality is non-existent, and still enjoy a cheeseburger and not think about what went into making that burger happen.Unfortunately I can't craft a moral argument in the face of the proposition that "morality is non-existent".If that was really true then nothing is worse or better and the statement:mass torture of our food is probably worse than someone screwing an animal.Has no concrete meaning.
My "moral system" is probably pretty unique is why. Ultimately I don't believe in the existence of morality. I don't look at it from the pessimistic view point that people automatically associate nihilism with. I see personal value in holding "moral" standards, as long as in the long run I acknowledge that they don't exist, and that my opinion isn't objective. You could call me a subjectivist, but there are deeper reasons that I don't think morality exists.
So in context to this conversation, you are right that saying "one thing is worse than another" is virtually meaningless for the sake of debate and convincing others. It's more of a personal standard of valuing one thing as deplorable, and the other as distasteful and repugnant IE murder, over animal "rape".
When I last discussed this with you on DDO I believe that's about where our conversation on this topic had stagnated. I accepted your argument that "we do worse thing to animals all the time".
I don't think I ever remained convinced that it wasn't essentially rape though, more just so that you were saying it should be okay because other worse things are accepted by society. I think you should have the freedom of speech to defend your idea though, and that I will always fight for.
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I don't know how that's a here we go again, dude. I don't know what moral good you think you're championing here or what argument of his swayed you, but the dude fucks his dog. You dismiss these weirdos out of hand always or you're also a weirdo. Being a debater doesn't save you.
I am not going to morally defend dog fvcking, like I am not going to morally defend the torture of animals in factories before we eat them. Hunting for survival is one thing but mass torture of our food is probably worse than someone screwing an animal. I don't like either of them, but I'd rather just acknowledge that morality is non-existent, and still enjoy a cheeseburger and not think about what went into making that burger happen.
Screwed up stuff you do not subjectively like happens all the time. Some people think abortion is murder, and others do not. I don't know why someone pleasuring himself with their dog is worth chasing off the site over someone you think committed actual murder though.
It is silly to arbitrarily draw a line on one thing and not others. I know this is an un popular opinion. And before you draw a line to pedophilia or whatever, you should acknowledge that our pets don't have the same rights as humans. Yeah the dog doesn't consent and will never understand to consent and that's unfortunate. Thats the number one reason I dis-agree with it. But you have to recognize equally that animals don't get the same rights as humans in virtually any other area too. Even your furry best friend is forced to eat the same bland diet for the rest of his or her life, has to obey your commands to live with you, and generally doesn't get the same treatment. Also we arbitrarily decide which animals get rights and which don't.
Landa: Consider, for a moment, the world a rat lives in. It's a hostile world, indeed. If a rat were to scamper through your front door right now, would you greet it with hostility?
LaPadite: I suppose I would.
Landa: Has a rat ever done anything to you to create this animosity you feel towards them?
LaPadite: Rats spread diseases. They bite people.
Landa: Rats were the cause of the bubonic plague, but that's some time ago. I propose to you, any disease a rat could spread, a squirrel could equally carry. Would you agree?
LaPadite: Oui.
Landa: Yet I assume you don't share the same animosity with squirrels that you do with rats, do you?
LaPadite: No
Landa: But they're both rodents, are they not? And except for the tail, they even rather look alike, don't they?
LaPadite: It's an interesting thought, Herr Colonel.
Landa: Ha! However interesting as the thought may be, it makes not one bit of difference to how you feel. If a rat were to walk in here right now, as I'm talking, would you greet it with a saucer of your delicious milk?
LaPadite: Probably not.
Landa: I didn't think so. You don't like them. You don't really know why you don't like them; all you know is you find them repulsive.
My goal here isn't to defend Bestiality. I do not like bestiality any more than I like cows and chickens being tortured. My point is no topic is too "controversial" for debate. If there is an argument to be made it should be made, and if it is an unpopular idea or opinion that a society agrees with, they will make the needed change to adopt that subjective moral. If we want to give animals more rights we can't punish one idea and not another.
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your not understanding, he can still go, but the entirety of mafia is gonna get stalled for him lol. I will post sign ups for mine then if your not playing.
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@Mharman
I already messaged him, he has finals in school so hes busy atm
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Supa isn't gonna be ready for a few weeks. Your turn
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Supa - Kanye West's Discography Mafia OR Attack on Titan Mafia
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Mharman - NFL Mafia
Lunatic
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@ADreamOfLiberty
It is a long story. In brief I was being harassed by a certain member on DDO, that person was trying to get me banned so he was constantly reporting me among other things. Since I so clearly err on the side of freedom I did not report him (at first). I maintained a catalog of contradictions, a condensed and satirical history of his harassment, and always responded to his derailments by challenging him to a debate and or reposting that condensation.
I remember this whole situation with YYW. I consider the guy a friend, even though I myself have clashes with him literally all the time, and probably have more to come inevitably lol. I remember agreeing with you in this whole exchange, even if I didn't want to publicly get involved. While I dis-agreed with your takes on bestiality, I remember thinking it was absurd that someone should be advocating a ban over an idea instead of being willing to discuss it. And especially when you were willing to respond with well reasoned logic. YYW can be extremely stubborn and will probably never admit he is wrong, so I don't imagine this went anywhere.
Airmax got involved and asked what I wanted from this guy, I said I just wanted him to make an argument to support his claims (which was the truth). Airmax said he would force that to happen (or else insist the harasser leave me alone), I was surprised; it was an unusual thing for a moderator to say. Lots of other things happened but basically he reneged on that. Instead he ended up saying that I would have to ignore the harasser, removed my posts/thread detailing the harassment but refused to remove the harassment itself (which would have been a bit of a job, it was everywhere for like 2 years)."Lie" perhaps was too strong a word, made promises he couldn't keep certainly; but at the same time it seems very unlikely that he couldn't follow through on what he said he would do and much more likely that he was overwhelmed by the job and simply told me whatever he thought I wanted to hear in the hopes that the whole situation would go away... that would be a lie.As for his "laissez faire mentality" maybe he changed, maybe he learned from what happened on DDO. Certainly if he had been laissez faire in the the described situation I would have found no fault in him.
I've asked airmax to chime in and respond here, since I wasn't privy to the details. I guess the fact that YYW's agenda wasn't accomplished here in getting you banned is a good point in showing that Airmax is pretty Laissez faire though. I guess my only difference of opinion with you would be whether it is justifiable for you to be angry that action wasn't taken against YYW. You used the term "harrassment", so I guess if you felt harrassed no one can tell you that you aren't allowed to feel that way. I personally am not a fan of a tattle tell mentality on a debate site though. I think you should expect heated arguments and opinions when you join one, and some measure of "thick skin" should be expected. Having dealt with YYW many times argumentatively, I can say arguing with him is annoying. He won't respond to specific points you make, instead he opts type long paragraphs that more rant, rave, and repeat the same thing over and over again. He tends to think his own opinions and morals are the one and only objective truth. That's obviously ridiculous. But I can tell you there were members who were way worse than him on that site, and I don't support a ban on really any of them as well. This website has the option to actually block someone from tagging you (A weak move for someone who calls themselves a debater, but an option nonetheless). I feel like a user has some measure of personal responsibility in just ignoring someone that is annoying them rather than complaining to a mod to get them banned for "harassment". If Max did nothing in this situation, that's probably the exact measure I would have supported him taking. Maybe he should have been better at communicating that this was his chosen method, but I can't speak to that as I was not privy to your DM's. Knowing Airmax though, I can see how he could have been flaky with his communication though. I have experienced that with him myself.
At the risk of devolving into a nasty gossiper the idea that Coal/YYW would marry someone and then come to hate them so much that he would try and ruin him online with slander does not surprise me even in the slightest. In his case truly: hater is going to hate.
I've kind of just accepted with him that if Bsh's name ever comes up in any conversation that he is present to, he is going to have some extreme negative biased opinion to share about him and either ignore it or take it with a huge grain of salt.
So you think this particular oligarchy is virtuous, as I just implied it is possible do to the right thing while simultaneously being unaccountable. For now it's not like any other forum is better. I'll probably post sometime, see if a witchhunt forms and how the system handles it if it does.
I mean as far as a witch hunt goes, I can't guarantee that people won't do what YYW did on DDO to you lol. But I will do my damn best to defend you against the mods if they try to take action against you for simply expressing an opinion some view to be controversial, that I can guarantee you. I think moderation action against you is unlikely. Wylted usually says way more controversial things, and they are now to the point where they seem more or less okay with his opinions after a recent community voted "MEEP" that opted for less strict moderation.
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I hope that you realise that I've had and still have the power to keep the topics stale so that you wouldn't be able to use it to get the site popular but I didn't sabotage it.
I guess whether a topic is stale or not is up to the perceiver of the debate. I've read some debates with stale sounding topics before that turned out to have great discussion and dialogue. That said, if you were to intentionally make a boring debate out of spite, I don't really see what you would achieve from that. I know you care about the site, never doubted that you did. All our issues about differences in ideas about free speech aside, I do recognize and understand that you care about the website.
Your ideas of me being salty and blinded by my dislike for you and Airmax are unfounded. I think that you should have run for the president's seat instead of Airmax and just kept your behaviour in check, you'd have won by a landslide much harder than he won.I also would owe you directly for keeping me unbanned that time, instead of Airmax who I owe literally nothing to in terms of favours, so you'd have gotten my vote pretty much no matter what you did as I value repaying favours a lot as it's a good reputation to have.
When I was president on DDO, I felt like I had to censor myself too much, and be too political sounding. I do not like to change how I speak, and of course no one tells you that you have to, to be president. I just feel like I have to be held to a different standard. David actually offered me to be a moderator on the site a while back and I pretty much said no for the same reason. Ultimately I am here for a hobby and for occasional entertainment, mafia, social interaction, etc. Presidency/moderation makes it more of a job and takes the fun out of it.
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@Benjamin
Congratulations to both Benjamin, and RationalMadman to making to the finale of this tournament! I am very excited to see the outcome of this final debate and see who Dart's best debater is for the February March period.
Please come up with a topic and start your debate within one week of this post.
You have until midnight on March 21st (3/21/22) to agree to a topic and start the final debate. Whoever is stalling the decision on a debate topic at that point in time will forfeit the round automatically.
Good luck to both debaters!
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@ADreamOfLiberty
1) I left DDO because airmax lied to me in the capacity of a moderator (at least that is what I remember) and look he's the president here. This site appears to have so many of the regular posters and authority structures of DDO that I might call it DDO II, and like the world in general it has not grown wiser or freer in the past decade.
What did he lie to you about? Airmax seems to fit your standards of laissez faire mentality, not sure why you would dis-approve of him as a president. That said, he is not a moderator here. His role as president allows him to advise mods however. And I think his only agenda would be to push towards less strict banning towards speech. Of which I don't believe we've had any recent issues since I've been making a big stink about it to the mods the past few years and they seem to finally be listening.
2) The thread I linked to is discussing the controversial banning of wylted who was also an asshole on DDO but anywhere that bans you for being an asshole will ban you for serious disagreement too. Yes yes apparently he asked to be banned as some bizzare leaving ritual but before that he was controversially banned.
Yeah the mods are finally becoming a bit less strict. Then again the mod team is changed entirely. Virt (david) is no longer head mod. Whiteflame supa and Ragnar are the current mods, and seem to be in favor of free speech too. Ragnar sometimes has problems mis-construing posts and warping their meaning, but at least he's not banning people over it anymore so I'll give him some credit.
3) The creator of this thread was also embroiled in a controversy about being a pedophile, no doubt without proof or any relation to his capacity as a mod. Now also gone...
If you are talking about bsh, yeah that situation was dumb as hell lol. That was mostly Annie (esocialbookwarm from DDO) who apparently became "woke" and a huge cancel culture personality and Coal (YYW from DDO) who is bsh's ex, and obvious has previous beef with bsh. Those were the two loudest supporters of bsh being a pedo, but I think the majority of the site, or at least people I consider more rational, knew that was bogus. At the end of the day it was bsh's choice to leave though, and I don't think it was just that issue. I think it was a culmination of dealing with issues and controversy. I think he could have made his job a lot easier by just making less enforcable rules and taking a more laissez-faire approach like what were doing now.
As far as the rest goes I agree with you. The CoC has some really weird wordings, and arbitrary rules. In some cases it seems super strict (which someone like ragnar used to love taking advantage of to justify mod action) and in other cases it gives freedom for discretion to the mods, which contradicts being a strict enforcer lol.
I also think mods being self selected by peers is kind of unfair. That said I am happy with whiteflame as head mod because he will at least give lengthy responses to justify an action, and is usually well reasoned. And I haven't seen him make a controversial decision as of yet.
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It would be funny if you weren't serious.
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@oromagi
That is, you don't disagree on any particular point. Comprehension is not what you are about- you are only here to insult.Got it.
Insult? Just a bit of harmless trolling thats all. I found your post pretty hilarious that you were going above and beyond to explain why you think your qualified to use the N word that's all. The whole paragraph seemed like a saturday night live skit lol
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@oromagi
I'll repeat,To say as much demonstrates your misunderstandingIf you think we are saying the same thing than you have failed to comprehend.
You are like if this girl could speak english: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6fsuQRQH0s&ab_channel=InstagramTea
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@oromagi
Were saying the same thing, you are just using more words ;-)
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@Athias
Ah, I too once had a Black guy as a president. Can I has N word pass?That's not what oromagi was stating. He has stated that his experiences with so-called "Black" teachers, "black" lovers, "black" friends, "black" bosses, "black" literature, so forth and so on, informs his cultivation of this perspective:
Like I said, he knows a lot of black people so he gets the N word pass lol
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@Athias
I was slightly teasing. Post #5 had sufficient merit on its own without the caveat "I was taught this lesson by black people"--as if so-called "black" people could grant you authority one way or another in spite of your extended interaction with said, so-called "black" people. That's what my question is poking fun at. (Forgive my grammatical error.) It's very reminiscent of "but, I have black friends..."
I did find his post pretty hilarious lol
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@oromagi
I was taught this lesson by black people. Most of my elementary school teachers were black. In high school, my principal was Bobby Seale's little sister. I went to a small city college where I studied black poetry and black literature. I was an apprentice baker to a black woman for two years. I live in the oldest largest black neighborhood to be found west of Chicago and east of LA. My little townhouse was owned by Black Panthers in the 60's and by Crips in the 80's and as a center of black politics many famous black people have walked down my street and shook the hands of the black people who lived in my house- MLK, Lena Horne, Sammy Davis, Jr., etc. My next door neighbor is a black poet. I've had black lovers and black friends all my life.I learned how to write and speak the word nigger from Richard Wright and Langston Hughes and Zora Neale Hurston and above all, from James Baldwin.
Ah, I too once had a Black guy as a president. Can I has N word pass?
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Could use a few more tourney votes so we can see who moves to the final round. Please vote people!
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